Update of Addiction Son - Finally in Detox/Rehab
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Update of Addiction Son - Finally in Detox/Rehab
It tooks months of effort but my son has finally gotten hinmself into a Methadone to Abstinance (MTA) program and rehab. Average stay is 12 - 15 months. 
He feels very proud that he did it all himself with the help of some wonderful social workers at the drop-in centers he frequents. From living on the streets, to staying in a Shelter in Harlem - he's now in Samaritan Village in NYC.
There were bureaucratic slips, as well as my son's slips, but the bottom line is he's there and Medicaid is paying for it all.
I'm breathing a bit better nowaways, but of course I'm still nervous as only parents of an addict can be. I'm working the tools that today is great, tomorrow is a mystery, the 'Clarity will come of its own accord' saying. But once and awhile I hear the voice in my head saying "What if he fails". I then turn up the car radio louder. LOL.
So to celebrate I'm going hiking/backpacking this weekend with some friends. Time to relax and kickback.
While the chapters are still being written, this one has ended well.
Prayers and best wishes to all.
He feels very proud that he did it all himself with the help of some wonderful social workers at the drop-in centers he frequents. From living on the streets, to staying in a Shelter in Harlem - he's now in Samaritan Village in NYC.
There were bureaucratic slips, as well as my son's slips, but the bottom line is he's there and Medicaid is paying for it all.
I'm breathing a bit better nowaways, but of course I'm still nervous as only parents of an addict can be. I'm working the tools that today is great, tomorrow is a mystery, the 'Clarity will come of its own accord' saying. But once and awhile I hear the voice in my head saying "What if he fails". I then turn up the car radio louder. LOL.
So to celebrate I'm going hiking/backpacking this weekend with some friends. Time to relax and kickback.
While the chapters are still being written, this one has ended well.
Prayers and best wishes to all.
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It is amazing what they can do when we get out of the way. One thing that helps me when that little voice in my head asks me the same question is to think that the path belongs to my daughter and if she slips, maybe it is another lesson she needs to learn on her journey to a clean life. Enjoy today, tomorrow will take care of itself. Hugs and I am so happy for you and your son. Hugs, Marle
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(((Hurtingdad)))
I'm so glad for both of you!!! I know this has been a struggle, and not easy for you to sit back and watch.
As someone who was stubborn, hard-headed and chose to live on the streets, rather than take the opportunities that were offered to me...I can only tell you that "it takes what it takes, to get us where we need to be". The fact the got himself there, on his own, is fantastic!!!! Of course, don't discount the fact that he had a pretty terrific dad, standing on the sidelines, loving him enough to let him find his way
Enjoy your weekend...you deserve it!!
Hugs and prayeres!
Amy
I'm so glad for both of you!!! I know this has been a struggle, and not easy for you to sit back and watch.
As someone who was stubborn, hard-headed and chose to live on the streets, rather than take the opportunities that were offered to me...I can only tell you that "it takes what it takes, to get us where we need to be". The fact the got himself there, on his own, is fantastic!!!! Of course, don't discount the fact that he had a pretty terrific dad, standing on the sidelines, loving him enough to let him find his way
Enjoy your weekend...you deserve it!!
Hugs and prayeres!
Amy
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That IS awesome news. It's so amazing what people can be capable of if we just step back and let them be responsible for themselves. And it means all the more when we allow them to own their own recovery instead of interfering and trying to force them to be someone they aren't ready to be.
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Hi HurtingDad, I am so happy for both of you. It was your sons decision to enter recovery so breathe a little freer and have fun this week-end. Your son has been there and probably got sick of the way he was living .....so now comes the good part. You were also a wonderful dad that let him fall and face his consequences. The hugs will be coming. My son is now kicking himself around the block for the way he had spent so many months of his life....I'm just happy he realizes what mistales he made and is now working hard to earn our trust back. I hope he can do it!!! Smiles, Bonnie
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HD,
When I started posting here, your son was telling you about being mugged again........I could feel the pain in your words. Today I can feel your relief. Don't be worrying about tomorrow, be happy for today. I pray his journey to recovery will be bearable and your days of peace.... forever. I am so happy for you! Have a wonderful time.
When I started posting here, your son was telling you about being mugged again........I could feel the pain in your words. Today I can feel your relief. Don't be worrying about tomorrow, be happy for today. I pray his journey to recovery will be bearable and your days of peace.... forever. I am so happy for you! Have a wonderful time.
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I'm doing the happy dance with you, because I know what a relief it is when they finally make some good choices.
Have a wonderful weekend, you deserve a break from everything and some time just for you.
Hugs
Have a wonderful weekend, you deserve a break from everything and some time just for you.
Hugs
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I'm so glad for both of you! I love the idea of turning up the radio louder, lol. I have been known to talk out loud to myself in the car since I can't talk and awfulize at the same time
Have a great hike!!
Have a great hike!!
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