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Old 11-17-2008, 10:11 AM
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LETTING GO TAKES LOVE

To let go does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off,
it's the realization I can't control another.
To let go is not to enable,
but allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means
the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another,
it's to make the most of myself.
To let go is not to care for,
but to care about.
To let go is not to fix,
but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their destinies.
To let go is not to be protective,
it's to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny,
but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,
but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.
To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody,
but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.

To let go is to fear less and love more
Remember: The time to love is short


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Old 11-17-2008, 03:26 PM
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(((SIGH)))

It's like homecoming week here, and so good to see so many old friends.

I love that poem, especially this line...

To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.


My past, as painful as it has been, brought me to the good place I am in today and for that I will always be grateful.

Big Hugs for you and your son.
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Old 11-17-2008, 03:42 PM
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Sigh, Thanks for the reminder. I am constantly needing those these days. And good to see you here. Hugs, Marle
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Old 11-17-2008, 08:24 PM
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No thank you buttons right now, so I will say Thanks and thanks too for stopping by. Hope all is well!
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Old 11-17-2008, 09:00 PM
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Thank you for sharing that with us. It's great to hear from you.
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Old 11-17-2008, 10:22 PM
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Step 1....been studying it alllll day. TY
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Old 11-17-2008, 10:32 PM
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Old 11-18-2008, 05:41 AM
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Thankyou for sharing that. Printed that one off could use it some days.
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Old 11-18-2008, 10:01 AM
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Needed the reminder. Thanks.
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Old 11-18-2008, 04:56 PM
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Thank you for posting this- definitely a keeper!
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