Alaia

One of my co-workers gave me some good advice this weekend. Don't make emotional decisions. He is 100% right. I make emotional decisions with my ex-abf. He pointed out that relationships and life are also like a business. I manage a business. If an employee had acted the way ex-abf did then I would have fired them and moved on...never looking back. So...why should I do that in my relationship with the ex? Just some food for thought. Thanks for letting me vent :bounce

hope213

he is right but with the empoyee you are not in love with. most employers stay"in the business" with there workers. it would b great if it was that easy. my addict is my son & i have learned to let go & let God. it has taken a lot of work on my part in order to do that but he will will always be my son & in my heart.