optimistic4life

This is my 1st post so I hope I'm doing it right. I really want to quit drinking again, but my last attempts have not gone well...obviously. First time went to AA and cried through my first couple of meetings. It didn't really seem to help as I think the group wanted me to feel comfortable and didn't really explain the program and it seemed more like a confession meeting. The last meeting I went to there was a guy there struggling with sobriety, had received a dui and it seemed he was an emotional wreck.

Next I tried the group counseling which I attended all the meetings, but eventually just lied about not drinking and it failed.

I can't go to rehab for the 30 day program as I am self employed and provide most of the finacial support for the family.

Please any advice would be appreciated. I'm tired of being embarressed of myself, guilty of my actions and just disappointed that I'm incapable of controlling myself. I want this to be a success this time.

Anna

Hi and Welcome,

I'm glad you posted and that you want to change your life!

It's hard to stop drinking, but you can do it.

AA works for many people but there are other ways to stop drinking. One thing I found is that, besides stopping drinking, I had to make other changes in my life. SR is a great place to find support and for me it's a lifeline.

optimistic4life

Any direction on how to use this website and what steps I should take would be much appreciated.
Thanks in advance

Anna

You're doing just fine with the website.

Newcomers is a good forum, with lots of activity, but you can post anywhere you like.

For me, getting rid of all the alcohol in the house helped. I still don't keep any alcohol in the house, so it's just something I don't think about.

I think balance is essential for me. I tend to have an addictive personality, so I try to work on myself physically, mentally and spiritually each day. Focus on yourself and your recovery and you'll get through this.

optimistic4life

So do I want to keep on this thread or should I get involved with others and ask for advice there??? Sorry never been on a chat forum before.

CarolD

....Welcome to our recovery community

We are now using the Discussion Forums....
they are sort of a bullitin board.

You did start a thread ...Good!
and others will be along to share with you here.

You may also want to read other threads
and reply there too if the Topic interest you.

And your doing just fine communicating...
Take a deep breath and relax.

CarolD

Sooo...
have you considered speaking honestly with your
doctor about your drinking patterns?

That might be wise before abruptly quitting.

I did not go to a treatment facility either
no insurance ..and I was self supporting.

I did and do use God and AA for my recovery.
However...as Anna mentioned....there are other programs.

Please let us know how we can assist you
I am glad you joined us...

CarolD

Please click on the link/line below and see if
this information is beneficial It's from the book
that convinced me to finally quit drinking...

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...influence.html

Take care..

Rella927

Welcome to SR! A lot of great advice given above! Please keep posting and keep us updated on your progress-SR is open 24 hours a day to help guide you when you may need it. Know that you are not alone!

Glad that you are here with us!