Courage to Change ~ ~ Taking Care of YOU
Courage to Change ~ ~ Taking Care of YOU
Reading from Al-Anon book "Courage to Change" for August 16th (I know this post is late, but it's SO powerful):
"During stressful periods it can be tempting to skip a meal, push ourselves until we are totally exhausted, and generally ignore our basic needs. In the midst of crisis, taking time out for an Al-Anon meeting, a call to a Sponsor, or a breath of fresh air may seem like a waste of all-too-precious moments. There don't seem to be enough hours in a day, and something has to go. But are we choosing wisely?
"At the very time we most need to take good care of ourselves, we are likely to do the opposite. If we decide that our needs are unimportant or that we're too busy, we sabotage our own best interests. In times of crisis, we need to be at our best. By making an extra effort to get nutritious food, sleep, Al-Anon support, relaxation, and quiet time with our Higher Power, we strengthen ourselves physically, emotionally, and spiritually. This can make a difficult situation a little easier."
Today's Reminder
I am the only one who can make my well-being my top priority. I owe it to myself to pay attention to the needs of my body, mind, and spirit.
"Putting 'First Things First' in troubled times often means finding whatever way I can to set aside my burdens, even if just for a moment, to make time for myself." ~ ... In All Our Affairs
"During stressful periods it can be tempting to skip a meal, push ourselves until we are totally exhausted, and generally ignore our basic needs. In the midst of crisis, taking time out for an Al-Anon meeting, a call to a Sponsor, or a breath of fresh air may seem like a waste of all-too-precious moments. There don't seem to be enough hours in a day, and something has to go. But are we choosing wisely?
"At the very time we most need to take good care of ourselves, we are likely to do the opposite. If we decide that our needs are unimportant or that we're too busy, we sabotage our own best interests. In times of crisis, we need to be at our best. By making an extra effort to get nutritious food, sleep, Al-Anon support, relaxation, and quiet time with our Higher Power, we strengthen ourselves physically, emotionally, and spiritually. This can make a difficult situation a little easier."
Today's Reminder
I am the only one who can make my well-being my top priority. I owe it to myself to pay attention to the needs of my body, mind, and spirit.
"Putting 'First Things First' in troubled times often means finding whatever way I can to set aside my burdens, even if just for a moment, to make time for myself." ~ ... In All Our Affairs
When I read this reading, it hit me like a ton of bricks. It's not their resposibility to take care of me or put me first - AND - it's NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY to put THEM first or make THEM my priority.
Thanks so much for posting this!!!
I was called a "Martyr" at a meeting last year when it was made known that I had taken 0 vacation time in almost 9 months.
I was embarrassed and ashamed, even though some managers loved me for being so dutiful...I was angry with myself for not taking care of me. I then promptly scheduled 3 weeks of vacation
I was called a "Martyr" at a meeting last year when it was made known that I had taken 0 vacation time in almost 9 months.
I was embarrassed and ashamed, even though some managers loved me for being so dutiful...I was angry with myself for not taking care of me. I then promptly scheduled 3 weeks of vacation
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