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Old 07-17-2008, 02:37 AM
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just an update

Just wanted to give you all an update on me. I am doing great!! Dating a great guy and finally stress free and happy! XABF is still using, still involving everyone he can in his drama. His mother and I still talk but I limit our communication to just a hello and stuff once a week and his daughter is away at camp. I cannot tell you how good it feels to finally be free. It took some time to trust in this new relationship, but I am working on it. It really is something when you can consider a lover a friend as well. Well, that's really all thats going on here.....just wanted to give an update. Hope everyone is OK!

K............
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Old 07-17-2008, 03:33 AM
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You sound wonderful, sweetie. Your HP sent you here to find out all these truths, I imagine. And you were wise enough and loved yourself enough to grab onto them and do what is best for you. Congratulations!
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Old 07-17-2008, 03:55 AM
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K Wow that took a lot of courage to do. I am so happy that your sounding really happy again and getting on with your new relationship and friend. Everything happens for a reason. Best to you .
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Old 07-17-2008, 04:22 AM
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I'm so happy for you!!

I'm sorry he is still using, but you are no longer being dragged down with him.

Hugs and prayers!

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Old 07-17-2008, 05:47 AM
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I am so happy for you and so glad to hear from you with the update! It takes a lot of wisdom and strength to do what you did - it certainly has made a huge difference in your life. Addiction is a life long disease.....and a lot to sign on for. I wish that I had had the clarity that you did (should woulda coulda) but that's beside the point!

You've learned a lot through this experience and these are wonderful tools to have through life.

Keep checking in with us if you can - you have a lot of ESH to share!
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Old 07-17-2008, 02:37 PM
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BG.. right on......... glad you are happy! Thanks for sharing!
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Old 07-18-2008, 07:30 AM
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I have noticed with the successful relationships, you are each other... Best Friends, both people have to be givers, I wish you the best.
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Old 07-18-2008, 02:27 PM
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Thanks for the update - glad things are working out for you.

The light at the end of the tunnel is not a train!

Love in recovery,
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