thelightdawns

I cant believe it!!!
My ABF is a functioning A, (meaning he still goes to work and everything, most of the time) anyway, he came back on the weekend and said he would work on everything etc, that's what he always does but this time he mentioned the word A and actually went to a meeting! Within 3 days! He says he wants to go twice a week.
All I keep thinking is - if he can admit it - it's a start.
He says it was a real eye-opener and that he could really relate to people.

It was funny really because I didn't really want to know all the gory details, I just want him to stay on top of his game, and I felt like it was none of my business. Is that weird?

I wouldn't even find out anything about it for him to go. I figure if he really wants to do something about it - he will do it himself. And the more I leave him to it, the more capable he will be to continue it, with or without me.

I'm so tired from all the stress this week and I have a sinus infection. Boo!
Going to organise Al-anon for me and his Mum today. Have to find someone to watch the kids.

Thanks for reading - wanted to share.

Bernadette

That's great news!!!
Stay in the moment---keep your focus on you and your recovery!
I don't think it is weird that you don't want details about his meetings. In fact that's actually the way to go! His recovery has to be his own, like yours.

Good luck! Keep posting!
Peace,
B.