I did it! I walked away

Old 04-28-2008, 01:32 PM
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I did it! I walked away

Dear God I cannot believe I did it.
I want to thank all of you for all your prayers and helpful tidbits that you have been sharing with me. He is finally gone.
I got a new apartment, He showed up while i was moving stuff out, drunk, a fight happened. I said screw it i don't have to deal with this and i call the cops. He was arrested for DV and a possesion charge. I was outside smoking when the cops where trying to arrest him he was so drunk that he was fighting the police. That was Friday afternoon over the weekend I took everything that was mind out of the apartment and moved. He doens't know where to, and it's in a different city.

I have this huge relief off my chest it's amazing how much just a few days away from him makes me feel.

Thank you Everybody!!

Just wanted to update you and let you know I am ok.

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{hugs** I'm glad you called the cops! And that you are moving toward a better life for yourself!
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Shudi--

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Hooray for you!
You should be very proud of yourself. Continue to take good care of yourself and stand up for you!!
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I am so glad you are out of there, take care of yourself.
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Old 04-28-2008, 06:39 PM
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Wow, when you take action, you REALLY take action. Well done!
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Old 04-28-2008, 07:10 PM
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Proud of you for doing what was right for YOU, shudi !

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Old 04-29-2008, 06:54 AM
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I don't know you, but it sounds like you are a happy lighter person now! Congratulations!

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Wow- I am so glad to hear it! I was worried for your safety. Keep up the good work!
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Old 04-29-2008, 11:23 AM
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You are so inspiring! Thanks for posting this! I wish you luck!
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Shudi,

It is so great to see a woman stand up for herself and treat herself the way she deserves to be treated. You are precious and have a whole future in front of you. Make the most of each day, treat yourself to something lovely each night, and love yourself first. You are fierce, girl!
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Old 04-30-2008, 05:48 AM
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Thank all of your for your support.
This was the hardest thing i think i have ever had to do but i know it was right. It's been less than a week away and yes i miss him but my life already seems happier.

I hope all of the women and men that come here and are in a simular situation that i was relise that you can get out if you feel the need to and you can finda listen ear here to talk to. ((((HUGS)))))

Thank you So much!!!
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Old 05-02-2008, 04:55 AM
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