moving out sooner then I thought
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moving out sooner then I thought
Well good news everyone. I have found even a better place. I am moving into a 1 bedroom 1 bath in my same apartment complex(they gave me a really good deal to stay). I was going to move into a tiny studio apartment. They are transferring my lease(which was up in april )and letting me move out earlier. I only have 3 weeks of living with the xabf. I told him last night that this is what I was doing and he sounded stressed like it was an inconvenience. Now he only has 3 weeks to find a place instead of 1.5 months. Oh cry me a freaking river. If it wasn't for his stupid addiction then this would not be happening. Ha....serves him right.
I am for once so excited about something. I can't wait to have my own place again. I can't wait to not have all the drama!!! Can't wait to not be cleaning and find empty vodka bottles.....found one this morning.
Everything is working out just great.
I am for once so excited about something. I can't wait to have my own place again. I can't wait to not have all the drama!!! Can't wait to not be cleaning and find empty vodka bottles.....found one this morning.
Everything is working out just great.
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Oh cry me a freaking river.
I hear that. You go, sister. And don't forget to take care of yourself once the "crisis" period has passed and you have some quiet time on your own. Read some codependent books so that you can prevent any future relationships from turning out like this one
I hear that. You go, sister. And don't forget to take care of yourself once the "crisis" period has passed and you have some quiet time on your own. Read some codependent books so that you can prevent any future relationships from turning out like this one
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This is wonderful news for both of you! You will be free to live the happy life you deserve, and he will have one less codependent in his life, which could put him one step closer to recovery. Great for both of you.
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Designer, way to go. It's really uplifting to see some positive posts. You just keep on putting those positive "vibes" out into the universe, and good will come to you.
You may have guessed where I got the above....it's from "The Secret", which I just began watching. Makes sense.
Enjoy the new place....fill it with things that make you happy and peaceful!
Shivaya
You may have guessed where I got the above....it's from "The Secret", which I just began watching. Makes sense.
Enjoy the new place....fill it with things that make you happy and peaceful!
Shivaya
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Daisy30, you can find "The Secret" in book form or on DVD, you can visit The Secret :: Official Web Site of The Secret Movie :: Law of Attraction to find out more.
I first heard of it on Oprah, and my friend has lent me the DVD. It's actually quite simple. If you wake up in the morning and say/think/predict you are going to have a bad day, then you will. If you wake up in the morning and say/think/predict you are going to have a good day, then you will.
I think a lot of us already know this, but sometimes we get stuck in "negative feelings/thoughts/emotions".
So the concept is, focus on what you want, where you want to go, how you want to get there, who you want to go with, etc.
Don't focus on what you don't have, where you have not been, how you can't get there, and how you can't get anyone to go with you.
Give out "good vibes" and you will attract good things! The Power of Attraction! Like attracts like! (can you sense a little "hippie" in me, I mean the 1960's kind of hippie, not that I have big hips)!
Hope this answers your question, good luck!
Shivaya
I first heard of it on Oprah, and my friend has lent me the DVD. It's actually quite simple. If you wake up in the morning and say/think/predict you are going to have a bad day, then you will. If you wake up in the morning and say/think/predict you are going to have a good day, then you will.
I think a lot of us already know this, but sometimes we get stuck in "negative feelings/thoughts/emotions".
So the concept is, focus on what you want, where you want to go, how you want to get there, who you want to go with, etc.
Don't focus on what you don't have, where you have not been, how you can't get there, and how you can't get anyone to go with you.
Give out "good vibes" and you will attract good things! The Power of Attraction! Like attracts like! (can you sense a little "hippie" in me, I mean the 1960's kind of hippie, not that I have big hips)!
Hope this answers your question, good luck!
Shivaya
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