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Old 12-30-2007, 08:49 AM
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I was so fooled

I was fooled to think a real alcoholic only drinks all day long...

I was fooled to think a real alcoholic didn't take care of their kids

I was fooled to think a real alcoholic got out and would drink and drive

The truth is.......

I only drank in the evenings, the truth is I took and take very good care of my kids, the truth is I never got behind the wheel....and the truth is that I am an alcoholic

Day 19 of sobriety and I actually feel like a different person. I can't believe the energy I have in the morning. I am actually starting to love myself. I look better, sleep better, act better....and to think just a few hours of drinking in the evening could have destroyed all of that!
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Old 12-30-2007, 08:51 AM
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Good Job on 19 days! It is amazing the freedom that comes from putting down the bottle!! Keep up the good work, you and your family are worth it!
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Nicely put and congratulations!!

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Old 12-30-2007, 09:52 AM
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Great post!

I was fooled to think that I couldn't become an alcholic because I didn't start drinking until my mid-forties.
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One of the greatest fallacies is, "You can't become alcoholic, if you only drink beer."

And, I love it when someone says, "He/She doesn't look like an alcoholic", much the same way as they would say, "He doesn't look like a child predator".

There is still so much to be learned (and taught) about alcoholism.
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Old 12-30-2007, 10:29 AM
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Well done! Keep going!
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Old 12-30-2007, 10:43 AM
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Nice work ! Congrats.... Glad you're here.
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Old 12-30-2007, 11:00 AM
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You're so right. I was fooled too. We weren't that drunk on the street corner.

Congrats on your strength.
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Old 12-30-2007, 11:11 AM
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You just described me, too. Thanks for putting it so well and thanks for sharing...and CONGRATS on day 19. Keep going!
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Old 12-30-2007, 11:16 AM
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Very good post

I used to always say " I'm not that bad"

Truth is, I did get that bad. I was 40 years old when I lost everything. I always thought that it could never happen to me, but it did.
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Old 12-30-2007, 07:13 PM
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That is so true! Thanks for posting it
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Old 12-31-2007, 02:44 PM
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Congrats! That must feel great. I really enjoyed your post...a lot a truth to it!
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Old 12-31-2007, 05:29 PM
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Another thing I was fooled about.......

I was fooled to think you HAVE to drink on New Year's eve....

Truth is you don't have to drink on New Year's eve and imagine how good I will feel tomorrow and how prepared and full of energy I will be to tackle my new exercise program=)

Day 20 *****
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Old 12-31-2007, 05:39 PM
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I agree
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Old 12-31-2007, 09:18 PM
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Long before I became an alcoholic
I thought the term only applied to homeless derelicts.
*sigh*
It never entered my mind thet alcoholism is a disease.
Or that it is progressive, chronic and fatal.

Many of the people in jails or living on the street
once had all the same exact lifestyle as me...

Wow! was I fooled!
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