justme

Always drama in my home. Can't ever have a calm night. My adh is doing well my we never communicate with out arguing. I get so fustrated I just want to scream. Sometimes I feel so mad I don't know what I am going to do. Sometimes I think I just want to be done with all the madness. I just cant handle drama in my life I just want to be happy and I feel happy but when we argue I just want it be over. I can't handle the agruing don't want to do this right now........confused.:codiepolice

hope213

sorry u r dealing with this. it is up to you to make the peace for you that u deserve. sounds as if u have had enough & we all deserve to be happy & have our life.set boundries for her. i am glad she is doing good.she will keep on doing good if she really wants to.have u thought about telling her to get her own place? give her a dead line & let her know you mean it. it is hard to put our children out but we deserve so much better than what they give us.prayers for u both,

BrokenBridges24

(((HUG))) I so have been there b4. My advice, do not get yourself to that point. I know easier said then done but seriously you need to let go of some of the BS that is getting you to the point of a arguement or screaming match. Set boundaries. That is what I do. This is my side and that is theirs. You do not mix your side in with theirs and do not mix theirs in with yours. Sit back and let the chips fall where they may fall on their side. Mind your own side. If you see something you dislike or what have you... keep quiet. Mind your side. That is the only way to stop feeling like you hate to go home or you just want to run away from it all. Take it from someone that has been there...

God bless. I know it is easy for me to say. But really. You do not need this drama. You are just driving yourself bonkers and you know what the A's are sleeping like babies. 9 out of 10 times they never remember any of these arguements and you are still feeling like crap. Let go...

(((HUGS)))

Broken

krhea75

I'm so sorry for the chaos...is she living with you? Can this be changed? Step away from the drama, and your life will drastically improve.
krhea

Wascally Wabbit

Oh yeah, I have been there.
I learned that it takes 2 to argue. If one does NOT argue, then there is no arguement!
Try stepping away when it starts and take a deep breath, then refuse to be part of the arguement.
I know that sounds impossible, especially when the other is egging you on. But I learned (after a lot of alanon) that I can step away and NOT respond.
It helps me keep my own sanity.

hopeforever

hugs to you ihope tihngs will get better soon..
u deserve to be happy.
find a way to get your life back slowly...
set some rules. for urself what u can take...
iknow easy to talk hard to do,..im trying to learn that to.
but you can do it!!!!
big ug stay strong!!