Wow this hit home today....

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Old 10-09-2007, 05:23 AM
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Wow this hit home today....

I have been working on this very dedicated to it too! I can no longer allow others but, especially myself to sacrifice my own happiness in order to protect my parents/sibilings any longer!

This is HUGE!

I yield to joy

I can determine my own path to happiness. To be happy, I need to separate emotionally from my family; in so doing, I discover my inner resources. I discover my strengths.

I see that my survival does not depend on protecting my relationship with my mother or father at the expense of enjoying the rest of my life. I will not sacrifice my own happiness in order to protect my parents from feelings of inadequacy. I will not feel compelled to throw drama into my life by stirring up conflict in my relationships

If I’m feeling content and fulfilled, I will yield to joy. I find happiness on my own terms, in my own way. I determine my own path to happiness.
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Old 10-09-2007, 08:08 PM
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yeah, that _is_ good. Thank for sharing

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Old 10-09-2007, 08:25 PM
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Originally Posted by Rella927 View Post
I will not feel compelled to throw drama into my life by stirring up conflict in my relationships
Sounds like a new mantra for me! Thanks for sharing Rella.
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Old 10-10-2007, 05:52 PM
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Wow (((((((((((rella)))))))))))) I love what you shared!!!!!

Thank you so much!!
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