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Old 09-22-2007, 11:02 AM
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a.s. missing in action

with his 9 yr. old daughter. i just got a call & he has been gone since 12 am last nite,14 hrs ago. he was drinking with a crowd of people & his 17 yr old daughters b.f. gave him his keys to go where ever (?), he has no liscens. please pray for my a.s. but especially my grand daughter that they are safe. he had his visitation this weekend. i am scared to death for her. a.s. has been doing good since feb. but goes to court on monday, i guess that is what triggered him.don't know,don't care i just want her safe & back with her mom. i do not understand how anybody can do that with there daughter.i know he is using,why else would he leave with all the drinking going on & why would anybody let him leave with his daughter? nobody has heard from them.prayers please. vacation is over & it is back to reality.
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Old 09-22-2007, 11:03 AM
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Old 09-22-2007, 11:10 AM
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Sending prayers for the safe return of your granddaughter and your son. Hugs, Marle
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Add my prayers too, Hope. This must be such a worry to so many people.

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Try not to worry so much, she's ok he'll bring her back.

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Old 09-22-2007, 01:40 PM
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Have you considered calling the cops for the safety of your grandchild? That kid should be priority number one.

While I was still married, I told my ex that if she were to drive with our son while high on pills, I would call the cops. She knew I was serious and didn't do it.

For the child's safety, it really needs to be considered and let the chips fall where they may for you son.

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Sending more prayers for your grand daughter and son. Praying they are in God's protective hand and they will return soon.
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Old 09-22-2007, 02:35 PM
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she is back with her mom, safe. they were going in the resturant where his 17yr. daughter works & his ex saw them.she was going in when they were coming out. my H.P. was sure looking after the grand daughter.his ex called my daughter & said the grand daughter was ok but a.s was really strung out. they WERE getting ready to call the law. everybody thought that a.s. would go on back to where he is staying,where the party was. he hasn't...the main thing & most important is she is home & safe. this want happen again as i know the mother will not let him get her again & she shouldn't. as far as a.s. the chips will fall where they fall. i have no control over him, it is his problem. acceptance is the key.i am ok now,i just hope he will go sleep this off but i am sure he has not finished yet..he has got to get higher,so sad. as most of you know he could be looking at life as he can be tried monday as a habitual felon. 36 yrs. old & he is still at it. never did i think my baby son would turn out as he has but who does?? thank you for the prayers,thank you for helping me get my grand daughter home. prayers are powerful. thank you ,thank you.
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You are in my thoughts, and prayers.

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Hope, Thanks for the update. I am glad that she is home and safe. Must have been a bit scary for her. Hugs, Marle
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((((((Hope)))))))

Just sending you love and support, sweetie.
I'm glad your granddaughter is back home, safe and sound.
As for your as...
He's in my prayers.

I know this is hard on you. Sending you much needed strength and hope.

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You must have been worried sick. Thank God she is back safe!!!

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((((Hope))))) Prayers for you and for your son. What I do know is that his HP is walking with him through this, he is not alone.

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I'm glad this ended with everyone safe for now, Hope, and my prayers continue for your son, that he may find a better path no matter where life leads him.

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Old 09-23-2007, 11:39 AM
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thank you all for the prayers for my grand daughter & for my son. i hear it was quite a nite. his ex wife heard where he was & she & his daughter went & got the keys from him. he saw his ex( grand daughters step mom) waiting for his daughter & he started cussing his ex & beating her car with his fist.he told her he was going to kill her. he just called me. he is home now & apologized about his actions. he said he just got scared about court. quack, quack...he said he was blessed & gratiful that his ex found him & they got keys. all i said to him was i am glad you realized this & i am glad you got home safe. he wanted to know if i was ok & i said better than i used to be, i have a program in my life. i also told him that i was worried about his daughter being with him.he stated that he could not believe that he did that, that he had to have been really messed up to take her. he said he loved me & i told him i loved him too. now it is wait & see what happens in court tomorrow.we all know he will get time. his lawyer is trying to keep it in district court. he is charged with 3 felons so we will see. if it is sent upstairs he will be back home tomorrow. his h.p. is in charge.thanks again for your prayers, your support & you caring. hugs, hope
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Old 09-23-2007, 12:47 PM
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Hope, sorry to be late on this. I can only imagine what you went through. I am so glad the gd is back and safe.
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