NoChoice

I think I remember reading somewhere that there was a list of Red Flags to look for when meeting new people. Does anyone recall seeing something to that effect on the site?

I am still legally separated and I am coming out of the "I never want to date anyone again" phase to maybe I would be interested in meeting new people phase. I know my "picker" of men is broken and my mind is very powerful. I just don't want to wind up in the same place I was with my ex AH. Recovery is so wonderful. I am so at peace, so happy. I am so glad that I am learning to put me first and take care of me thru you and the program. I am so grateful for where I have come from and wherever I may be going. I am so grateful for choices.

I will be eligible to get divorced on 28 November. I am currently in Iraq and will be into the new year. I just heard about an attorney in my state that will walk my divorce papers through the courthouse for me in my absence. Since I was married for a WHOPPING 5 months, I think I would like to just go ahead and free myself! I am thinking seriously about going thru with that but I don't want to try to control things too much. I know that there is no chance reconciliation, I just don't want to drive the bus. Does that make sense? I guess I am rambling!

I am going on leave back to the States from Iraq on Fri. I can not wait to get to some great meetings and see the lush green of VA once again. I miss the simple things like the flora and fauna, our freedoms, family, flowers, pets too.

Zoey

Check sticky's at top, and go to Classic Reading and you will find red flags.