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Old 07-26-2007, 02:54 PM
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I am doing ok.

Hello Everyone. This is the first time in a while that I remember posting that I am actually doing ok. My pyscho XAH has stopped stalking me and the divorce is final.
I got a huge promotion at the Engineering Company that I work for... I got a new vehicle.... I'm seeing / talking to a nice guy.

Things seem to be going in the right direction for the first time in years. I am now seeing a friend go through some of the pyschoticness that I went through with my XAH and I am so thankful that I am no longer in that place. I have a long way to go before I get my own place and I have those days living with my mom that I could scream... but I am no longer living the nightmare with my X.

I don't know what I would have done w/out the support of my family, friends and THIS BOARD. Truly. I know you guys gave up on me and my situation many times.. (X drugging kids with Nyquil and Benedryl... etc) but I finally gathered the strength and got out.

I am blessed. Have a good weekend. Ayers
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Old 07-26-2007, 03:00 PM
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Never gave up on you and the bald patches are growing out nicely!

So glad to hear you are doing well. It's a tough situation and you have proven just hpw much of a smart cookie you are.

Thanks for checking in.
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Congrats! It sounds like life is going well for you.
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Thanks for the update;glad to hear things are going well. You sound good!
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hiya ayers!!!! so good to hear from you and that your life is taking off on a wonderful new ride. isn't it just wonderful to finally start to feel sane again????

you, also, helped me through some rough spots....so many thanks to you also, ayers.

take care
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Old 07-27-2007, 04:57 AM
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Originally Posted by Ayers1995 View Post
Hello Everyone. This is the first time in a while that I remember posting that I am actually doing ok. My pyscho XAH has stopped stalking me and the divorce is final.
I got a huge promotion at the Engineering Company that I work for... I got a new vehicle.... I'm seeing / talking to a nice guy.

Ayers, I don't know your story, but can relate nonetheless. When my XABF exited my life, things took an amazing upswing and I got a promotion as well!

Thanks so much for sharing. I love happy endings
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Old 07-27-2007, 06:33 AM
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Great news Ayers! Enjoy the wonderful new life of yours!
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Ayers, good to hear from you !
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Ayers, thank you so much for this updated post. I am glad to hear that things are going better for you.

As for giving up on you, we all travel our own journey at our own pace. Goodness knows that alot of people gave up on me, I'm sure - but I'm thankful that I ended it with my xah when I was ready. Otherwise, I know that it would have not turned out as it has.

Keep on working on your own recovery - sounds like you're doing a great job!
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