update on ah
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Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: jersey shore
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update on ah
I havent had the time , except for a few minutes here & there , to be on the computer . Just wanted to give an update .
Ah is still living at his moms and it seems to be going really well . He started this
weekend to come down on Fri nghts and 'camp out' in the family room with our
three oldest kids , he leaves on Sat nght when I get home from work (he does this
because I work until 10 on Friday nghts and then all day on Sat, it just makes sense) . He is just over 30 days sober now but is going through a little lull . I could hear it in his voice over the phone that he wasnt doing good , he admitted that he was struggling a bit and was going to 2 meetings a day . Makes me a little nervous but I dont express it , I just listen to him , encourage him to go to meetings and call his sponser which I think he does . He is not showing any interest at all in coming home and I glad for that . He knows we both need to get further in our recovery before we can even consider it .
Please keep us in your prayers !! Thanks !
Ah is still living at his moms and it seems to be going really well . He started this
weekend to come down on Fri nghts and 'camp out' in the family room with our
three oldest kids , he leaves on Sat nght when I get home from work (he does this
because I work until 10 on Friday nghts and then all day on Sat, it just makes sense) . He is just over 30 days sober now but is going through a little lull . I could hear it in his voice over the phone that he wasnt doing good , he admitted that he was struggling a bit and was going to 2 meetings a day . Makes me a little nervous but I dont express it , I just listen to him , encourage him to go to meetings and call his sponser which I think he does . He is not showing any interest at all in coming home and I glad for that . He knows we both need to get further in our recovery before we can even consider it .
Please keep us in your prayers !! Thanks !
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Thanks for the update.
If it make you feel any better, even with 2 years of sobriety with AA, my AH never reached the point your husband has been at these last few weeks. He still remained self absorbed... and seemed more concerned about being able to move back home rather than change the behaviors that caused the problems to begin with. I hope everything continues to improve for your family.
If it make you feel any better, even with 2 years of sobriety with AA, my AH never reached the point your husband has been at these last few weeks. He still remained self absorbed... and seemed more concerned about being able to move back home rather than change the behaviors that caused the problems to begin with. I hope everything continues to improve for your family.
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