update on ah

Old 05-19-2007, 11:07 AM
  # 1 (permalink)  
Let Go Let God
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: jersey shore
Posts: 437
update on ah

I havent had the time , except for a few minutes here & there , to be on the computer . Just wanted to give an update .

Ah is still living at his moms and it seems to be going really well . He started this
weekend to come down on Fri nghts and 'camp out' in the family room with our
three oldest kids , he leaves on Sat nght when I get home from work (he does this
because I work until 10 on Friday nghts and then all day on Sat, it just makes sense) . He is just over 30 days sober now but is going through a little lull . I could hear it in his voice over the phone that he wasnt doing good , he admitted that he was struggling a bit and was going to 2 meetings a day . Makes me a little nervous but I dont express it , I just listen to him , encourage him to go to meetings and call his sponser which I think he does . He is not showing any interest at all in coming home and I glad for that . He knows we both need to get further in our recovery before we can even consider it .

Please keep us in your prayers !! Thanks !
LGLG07 is offline  
Old 05-19-2007, 11:08 AM
  # 2 (permalink)  
full of hope
 
chero's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Oklahoma
Posts: 1,170
Hugs and prayers, LG!!

(((LG)))
chero is offline  
Old 05-19-2007, 11:25 AM
  # 3 (permalink)  
Member
 
Zoey's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2004
Location: over yonder
Posts: 1,548
So glad you took time for an update.

We A's are still pretty shakey and still in a fog at 30 days. IMO
Great he makes lots of meetings.

Caring hugs to all of you.
Zoey is offline  
Old 05-19-2007, 01:49 PM
  # 4 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: state of confusion
Posts: 351
Thanks for the update.

If it make you feel any better, even with 2 years of sobriety with AA, my AH never reached the point your husband has been at these last few weeks. He still remained self absorbed... and seemed more concerned about being able to move back home rather than change the behaviors that caused the problems to begin with. I hope everything continues to improve for your family.
Seeking Wisdom is offline  
Old 05-19-2007, 01:53 PM
  # 5 (permalink)  
Fool To Do Your Dirty Work
 
kglast's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Greenflower Street
Posts: 362
LG - so glad you updated us - i have been wondering how you are doing. prayers and good thoughts being sent your way!
kglast is offline  
Old 05-19-2007, 01:57 PM
  # 6 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: concord, nc
Posts: 304
Prayer for you and your family.
loveRoy is offline  
Old 05-19-2007, 02:03 PM
  # 7 (permalink)  
Member
 
CE Girl's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2007
Location: FREEDOM
Posts: 665
Been thinking about you LG. It appears you are both on track. We can only ask for "in this day"

Peace
CE Girl is offline  

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off




All times are GMT -7. The time now is 12:35 PM.