sthrnraizd

1. So the day (Friday) before mommy came to rescue her tit attached baby A, we spoke and had a very pleaseant conversation.

2. Sunday we met and she tried to tear me up while he sat there wordless.

3.I tried yesterday to reach him no luck anywhere, today I did at his job and he was mean as hell and hung up on me! Such a freakish change from pleasant to pure meanness. (I only wanted to know if he had followed up with separating his chking acct from my personal savings acct)....

WOW...Im not sure what that witch did to him but she did a good job.....and he deseves all of it!...

denny57

Can't you check with the bank if the accounts are separate?

((()))

Sunflower

why are you still trying to contact him?this issue could have been resoved by you alone just going to the bank and explaining your situation--they will help you out and THEY can get intouch with him to sign any papers you need....sounds like you don't want to let go still.He is with his mother now and doesn't want to talk to you?leave it be and work on yourself.
Thank god you are not married to him

sthrnraizd

I know, I know, I did find out that things area separate but it was a link between two different bank accounts and his wouldnt tell me anything.

I am done contacting him. It was just the very last thing that he was supposed to do. its done and so am I.

I see how he is truning into something I dont even know and someone I want nothing to do with anymore...

Sunflower

Great now you can get on with your life and just worry about YOU!!

sthrnraizd

And I am, its strange I told him once that "knowing him would forever change me for the better" I had no idea waht I was saying but now it's going to be so true.
1. Doing weekly therapy for abandonment and co-dependancy
2. Have I gues 7 books so far to read
3. Have a bunch of hypnotic cd's for stress, rejection, relaxation, failure, in-security, etc I figured I'd just cover everything!`< LOL
I am going to be soooo healthy :-)

ICU

I hear 'ya! On....'good days'...(which don't seem to be to often lately, LOL) I try to view his former presence in my life as my 'catalyst to change', hopefully, no definitely, for the better!