feeling a little weak
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feeling a little weak
haven't talked to him all day - feeling a bit weak - please remind me that i should not talk to him.....i know it will only upset me....
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: southern indiana
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play the tape all the way through.....if you talk to him, how will you feel? will you feel better? will you two have the same conversation that always ends in the same stalemate? will the conversation feed your emotional needs in a positive manner? will the conversation honor you?
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Atlanta
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try to do something engaging instead, or you might keep going back to that. every time you want to call, call someone else or post here. write a list, a REALLY LONG list of things you can do that are more supportive and caring towards you. i bet theres a lot of other things. call someone who loves you instead. trust me, i know how hard it is. i really do. i mean i really really od and i also know what mean things have been said in moments of weakness when i had hope and missed my ex but i could not control how he felt or how he expressed what he felt towards me- but i could not cntrol how i responded either, as in, naturally it was painful.
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