historyteach

Well, Trevor got out of prison a week ago last Thursday.
It wasn't 24 hours, and he was using.
He got thrown out of the 1/2 way house that his dad and I paid for.

Yesterday morning, I got a call from his dad. He said Trevor went to the mental hospital. So, while I was in the city, I stopped. They told me he had been transfered to another hospital, but, wouldn't tell me why.

This was scarey cause he has HepC and it's not been treated. So, I figured it was a result of liver readings that the mental hospital would have taken.

I went to RI hospital, and he couldn't be found ANYWHERE! He was not in the computers, he was not in the mental health ward; he was not in the emergency ward, where they would have brought him.

My best guess is that he took off once more. It doesn't look good. He hasn't called his father or I.

He missed his appointment for food stamps. He has no place to stay again. I can't imagine living this life....

And I continue to think about that beautiful child with all the promise in the world he once was....
Yet, it is what it is. :ok:

My mom is back in the hospital. No one knows what's wrong. Fevor, dehydrated, but, cannot pin point anything in order to "fix" it.

Thanks for listening...

Shalom!

marle

Teach, Sending prayers for Trevor and for your mom. Hopefully the doctors will find the cause of her problems. As for Trevor I pray that he finds his way. Take care of yourself. As sad as it is maybe he has more lessons to learn in order to find recovery. Hugs, Marle

hope213

oh, teach, i am sorry about your your mom & trevor.i hope the drs. find her problem real soon.trevor? he has got to "fix" himself.i am so sorry he is doing the things he is doing.we are here for you.take care of yourself.praying for your mom, trevor & you too.hugs,

dollydo

I am sorry, Trevor just hasn't hit his bottom yet, I pray for him and your Mom.

Ann

(((Teach))) My prayers go out for your son and your mom and special prayers for you too. Just remember that God is watching over all of you.

Hugs

jeepgirl

Big Hug, teach, big hug. This is a baffling disease. I have been thinking of you and Trevor, and wondering how you are doing. I am sending out love and prayers,
jeepgirl

indigo

Teach you know that your family are on my positive thoughts and love list.
They are always in my heart and so are you.

much love Annie

frankie_b

Teach, I am sorry Trevor continues to experiment and so understand your
concerns for him and Mom. Sending heartfelt prayers for all.
Huge warm snuggly hug.

Elana

Just letting you know I am thinking of you and adding my prayers to the rest.

mooselips

((Teach)))
Prayers and lots of hope coming your way.

I find it hopeful that he was seeking help, don't you?
(He's thinking Teach, he's thinking......)

As for your mom, I hope they figure
out what's going on, and she heals fast.

Prayers for your mom, and Trevor...
and lots of good thoughts!

ncdeac

Prayers for you, for Trevor and for your mom. Don't forget to take some time out to focus on you through this difficult time.

cece1960

Add my prayers Tech,
((((Teach)))) (((((Trevor)))) ((((Mama Teach))))))

Cece

parentrecovers

prayers to you and your family, teach. k

Lovestoomuch

Aww Teach, I'm so sorry. Keeping you, your mom and son in my thoughts and prayers.

Jewelz

Teach, my prayers go out to your family.

You know though what I dont understand is that if he left the hospital wouldn't they still have on record he was there and left?

Jewel

cmc

******{Teach}}}}}
Just a thought....Maybe this does not apply to Trevor's situation.
Is it possible that you weren't told where he is/was because of privacy laws? I know that some places are more strict than others about that. If I were to call my son's halfway house on the phone they are not allowed to acknowledge that he is even enrolled in their program. He had to authorize permission for staff to speak with me.

Wascally Wabbit

Teach, I feel for you. What a day you're having.
I am going through a terrible wait for my son to get into a rehab center. He's living with a drug addict. It's an awful situation, and he wants so bad to get into the rehab which is only 9 days away. I am trying not to think of how he might get in to serious trouble before then.
We need some stress relief don't we?
Hopefully by the time you're reading this you'll have some answers.
Here's a prayer for peace and healing for your mom and son.

Brownie

Dear Teach - Sorry for all your troubles - I agree with cmc these "privacy" rules can drive you crazy but this could be an answer - meanwhile take care of yourself and your Mom - I'll have you in my prayers ((HUGS))

historyteach

Yes, it *is* possible that the privacy laws prevent me from knowing, Especially if he told the hospital personelle not to tell me; it wouldn't be ther first time.

I do agree, Moose, that it is good he's thinking. He has to add action to those thoughts to make a difference, unfortunately.

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. I took yesterday off, and took care of some things I needed to get done. As I said, went to the hospital. Also went to court to take care of some parking tickets, lol! Got the fines reduced from $630 to $110!!!!
(Thank you, judge!)

Anyway, I'll keep you posted. His dad called to ask if I had heard anything. Said he would call the hospital himself, cuz Trevor *may* just be keeping the information from me.

Thanks again for your loving, thoughtfulness and prayers.

Shalom!

BigSis

I posted this on another thread, but it applies here as well.

I had no idea... none whatsoever that a month before she got clean my kid was that close to sobriety.

That helps me today when I get down about my son - who is still using.

We can't tell by looking or by listening or by watching. They are on a path with Someone who can and does know, however.

(((Trevor))) (((Teach)))