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Old 04-21-2007, 10:31 PM
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Hi everyone.

This is my first post. I got back from the ER a little while ago, and they recommend a full detox. I didn't know it was such a problem, but in hindsight, it's ruined a large portion of my life.

Today I asked for help.
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Old 04-21-2007, 10:55 PM
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Hi Fade,

Welcome!

What are you detoxing from?

There is lots of support here and information, too, so keep reading and posting.
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Old 04-21-2007, 11:01 PM
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Hi Fade,

Welcome!

What are you detoxing from?

There is lots of support here and information, too, so keep reading and posting.
I'm a cross addicted alcohol/Xanax abuser. Xanax for about a year, and the alcohol for about the past eight.

Thank you for the warm welcome, and for your support. I will be frequenting this board...they recommended that I seek an internet chat board if I'm not comfortable going to meetings. I think that was a good idea.
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Old 04-21-2007, 11:14 PM
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Hi, Fade,

I started using internet forums because I was uncomfortable with face-to-face meetings. However, I've recently started attending meetings and they really help. Might be worth considering, anyway?

Cheers,

Mick
I will consider it, but not right now. I've managed to fool everyone in real life, even myself. When the time comes for me to face others like me...I probably will.

Good advice, and thank you.
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Old 04-22-2007, 01:32 AM
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Welcome Fade !

yep, this is a great place..really helped me a lot...hope to see you around !

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Old 04-22-2007, 04:04 AM
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Welcome Fade!

Reach out for help where ever you can find. There are tools to stay sober. I hope you use them. It can be done.

Best wishes,

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Old 04-22-2007, 06:08 AM
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Glad that you are here and welcome. There are some wonderful people here, I have only a few days and it has help me a lot.
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Old 04-22-2007, 06:57 AM
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Welcome Fade!

amazing what weight begins to lift from your shoulders the more you read here, as you begin posting and getting some of the fear and sadness out of your head and into cyberspace.

Look forward to meeting you.

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Old 04-22-2007, 07:02 AM
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welcome, when sobriety starts to sink in you'll feel much more ready to face anything

God bless
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Old 04-22-2007, 07:14 AM
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Welcome fade, so they reccomended a full detox, great,

what are your plans, have any questions?

your friend in recovery, hope3
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Old 04-22-2007, 07:22 AM
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Welcome Fade.

Sorry to repeat everything said already, but, believe me this forum is a lifesaver.

Keep cool.

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Old 04-22-2007, 08:11 AM
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Hi Fade and welcome to recovery, it is a great place to be. This is a great place to be.

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Old 04-22-2007, 11:55 AM
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Welcome fade, so they reccomended a full detox, great,

what are your plans, have any questions?

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Thank you for your support!

I have several questions...and I'm pretty nervous about the whole thing. I can't do an inpatient detox due to the fact that I have to work, so they recommended an outpatient program where you go to meetings and such. Not sure if I can do that either.

Do I just wake up one day and say to myself, "I'm not drinking tonight", and suffer the consequences, or set aside some time (vacation days) when I can be at home suffering these terrible withdrawals that I'm told I'll be going through? I already feel it, because I've slowed down A LOT in the past week...it doesn't feel good at all. I'm willing to do whatever it takes, I just need a good time frame to make it happen.
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Old 04-22-2007, 12:13 PM
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Hello Fade! I wish you the best. If you are really determined to stop, then there will probably be some discomfort, to say the least.

As was told to me, I could go through the pain of stopping drinking....yes, there were withdrawals...I felt like I had a horrible flu. But the hard part for me was staying stopped.

This board has been a life saver for me. When I just don't know what to do with myself, I stay here and read and read and read.

Good for you slowing down so much. Keep reading, keep writing. As far as a good time frame, there is no time like the present. The people here will support you, no matter what.
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Old 04-22-2007, 01:53 PM
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Hi Fade:

Recovering alcoholic here:

Haven't touched Xanax in 15 years, bur took it (prescribed)

for 15 years daily. My detox (controlled with a substitute

medication) was for four months. A graduated decrease

from 4 (I won't name the drug) pills daily to 3, 2, and the

last month 1. I have never picked up since then. Your

symptoms may not require a drastic solution as your use

was rather short term (1 year). Follow whatever your

doctor's instructions are to the "T". Some time off

work may be the best for you...

I hope this helps in some way...keep posting...

And do not give up. The first step is admitting the

problem and seeking help.

You are doing great!

We are all with you on this...

Love,



Sherry

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Old 04-22-2007, 02:13 PM
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Thank you all so much.

I'm gonna get through this.
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Old 04-22-2007, 05:29 PM
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Hi Fade . Good to meet you. If you're not doing inpatient detox please get as much help and info from your doctor as to be safe at home. I haven't had to go through this so my advice is not from experience... just advice. You have found a great internet support group here... I hope you stick around.
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Old 04-22-2007, 06:23 PM
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suggest your taper off Xanax very carefully.

I have been thru it, and while mine went well, it must be done right.

PM me if you would like.

CONGRATS on speaking up!!!!

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Old 04-22-2007, 09:17 PM
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I'm proud of you for taking a big step to get help. Sobriety is awesome. I am looking forward to getting to know you. Welcome to SoberRecovery!
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Old 04-22-2007, 09:45 PM
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Remember too, that simply de-toxing is not going to mean you quit using.

I drank on the way home from my first de-tox, and made it 6-8 weeks after my last one. It wasn't until I found a good recovery program (AA in my case) and fully immersed myself in it that I was able to gain any considerable (relative to me at least) time of sobriety. (6 months this Wednesday)
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