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Join Date: Oct 2006
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Back here again
Hello again. I have been away for a while and things were going pretty good. Or atleast I thought they were. Well, I am back. AH is back at it more than ever. Drinking about 2 cases of beer a day. Last night he sat at the dining room table and cried for a while. I am so sick of this. I just ignored him and went about doing the laundry. I think he was shocked that I didn't do the whole, it's ok, you'll get through this routine. He finally stopped crying went and took a shower and then watched tv. I went to bed after the laundry. Well it's not good to be back here at SR, it's good to know you are all here to come back to. Thanks.
Becoming a Butterfly
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: New York, NY
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Originally Posted by Hanginon 
I just ignored him and went about doing the laundry. I think he was shocked that I didn't do the whole, it's ok, you'll get through this routine. He finally stopped crying went and took a shower and then watched tv.
Glad to see you tho we both wish it could be under lighter circumstances.
Last edited by DesertEyes; 03-21-2007 at 07:49 PM. Reason: fixed broken quote
I'm no angel!
Join Date: May 2005
Location: tampa, fl
Posts: 6,728
Recovery from living with an active "A" is not a one night stand. What I mean to say is, because things are going good for a few days or a month doesn't equate to everything being ok.
My ex-abf has been gone for 9 months, I still come here for me, to continue to grow in my recovery, and support others who are going through the h*ll I went through.
Keep coming back, keep posting, it will help.
My ex-abf has been gone for 9 months, I still come here for me, to continue to grow in my recovery, and support others who are going through the h*ll I went through.
Keep coming back, keep posting, it will help.
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Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: state of confusion
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Sorry to hear about your situation .... but you have come back to the right place. We all can relate to the ongoing disappointment and the roller coaster of ups and downs. I have lost track of the number of times I would get my hopes up when my A would go through a better stretch ... then gradually spiral down again. I wish SR had been around during those many years... I would have gotten a lot wiser sooner and not fallen into his trap of mind games over and over again.
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