lovecat

what can i say ..........................

Anna

Hi Lovecat,

I'm sorry things have gone badly, but you must try again. That is all we can do is get up and continue. Giving up is not an option.

aasharon90

Hi Lovecat. Share with me what do u mean when say
uve failed.....Did something happen today? I dont
know ur story, so would you like to share a little bit
about urself with me?

Golfman

Lovey,

You will never fail unless you stop trying.

"If you define yourself by what you've done in the past, the definition will never change." "Let what you do now and in the future define who you are and the definition will change dramatically."

hope3

Hi Lovecat, don't beat yourself up to much.

Aquitter never wins, and a winner never quits.

You had a slip on the road, if you don't wuit trying

you are a winner....love hope3

teej

lovecat, you sounded so good a little while ago!! What happened?? Its only a slip........come back!!

You cracked me up with your paper cup comment earlier, you seemed so happy.
You can do this!!!

pookielolo

Lovecat, I am new at this also
I read back on your posts, VERY similar to mine, I have "failed" many times, but I keep coming back and getting support and trying some meetings, and reading, and each relapse gets fewer and further between, I love the day to day thing, it gets me through
I actually hosted a party this weekend(a drinking party) and I drank coffee
But as the night went on , I kept thinking, minute by minute, minutes turn into hours, then days
keep trying!!!! failure does not mean you have failed, it means to start your next day new and sober, trying once again!!!

Jersey Nonny

Life is just a sleigh ride...it's the walk back up the hill that gets ya!

Lovecat...as I understand it, the only failure is in not ever trying.

UncleEarl

I think it's all been said above. A slip isn't a failure, losing hope might be.

Try again....support seems to come from the strangest places sometimes

Earl

Julygirl07

Hi Lovecat
You can start over as many times as you need to!
Take care

NYCGirl

hey lovecat... don't walk away... there is always again

Surlyredhead

There are no failures here, only real people with a common problem. We all need to lean on each other to make it through the day/hour/minute...never quit, quitting.....Bug Cyber Hugs are on their way to you...can you feel um?

SRH

fallen

hi lovecat, back on the bus you go.

remember, success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.



be happy

nogard

Its the journey that counts lovecat, dust yourself off and walk with us.

Kevin

Tazman53

Lovecat alcohol may have won this battle, but you can win the war, every single day sober is a victory over the beast, I know it sounds stupid, but just do not drink today and you have won the battle.

Rusty Zipper

welcome back lovey...

stone

Hi Lovecat

I have been sober a month but halfway through I slipped and drank for 2 days, that's all it was-a slip.
It would have been possible to think I had failed at the time but that would have made so depressed I might have carried on drinking.

Do you see what I mean?

pistol

reading this thread is what i needed this morning, i have slipped many times, but i am not giving up on me or my hp; i can start again today; sometimes it is a minute at a time, sometimes an hours, but i am going to keep trying; thanks to all for being here; i am starting to like myself a little more each day; i can be a winner;

ayla zaire

lovecat.....you can start over.......i did, and it's been more than 100 days for me again......if i can do this, you can.......keep trying......

hugs
ayla

getting stronge

We all fail. Don't be so hard on yourself.