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Old 02-23-2007, 05:49 PM
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Help??

my husband just took off after we had a family dinner he sust left there is tons of booze in the house i begged and cried i can't do this
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Old 02-23-2007, 05:55 PM
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Hi,

You can get through this, stay with us, go to a meeting, call someone you trust.

You can do this!

Thinking of you and sending strength your way.
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Old 02-23-2007, 05:57 PM
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i have noone only him i cant breathe right now
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Old 02-23-2007, 06:04 PM
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Hi,

If you are having difficulty breathing maybe you should,

Seek medical help ok?
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Old 02-23-2007, 06:05 PM
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h4- hang on sweetie- stay here with us, ok
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Old 02-23-2007, 06:11 PM
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not real just panic how do i stay sober while my life falls apart, i just want to shrink into a dustball my kids are asking when hes coming home his best freind is calling looking for him Hello it is Fri night But the amount of emotions I have right now is ridiclios and ive never done well with emotion
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Old 02-23-2007, 06:18 PM
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You have to know drinking is not going to help the situation. I know how bad you want to drink- I know how hard it is to deal with these emotions. Take deep breaths and keep posting.
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Old 02-23-2007, 06:33 PM
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he has never aknowleged my problem he brought home aa books like 3 yrs ago but i got "better" then we were even questioned by people in our religion and he stuck up for me. i quit for over 30 days and then only drank on the weekends not even binge just a few he thought he was loving me by protecting me from the truth and now that i want to fix it hes done. i am not strong without him i can not raise my kids by myself, spritualy, emotionally or finacially, he always helped, i have no concept of being able to do this alone.i know so many people have been through things ive bee reading the forum for 2 days ALOT but i have no strenth no goodness
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Old 02-23-2007, 06:36 PM
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you do have goodness and you can find strength
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Old 02-23-2007, 06:37 PM
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u can message me i will listen to you to help you stop...its not a problem i like to listen and stuff...hang in there...=)
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Old 02-24-2007, 06:41 AM
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Hi h4lov909, Hang in there. It sounds like you could deffinately use a

support group, maybe he can't handle being that right now.

It's ok, I really think you could benefit from the support of A.A.

so you don't have to do it alone.

Hers the closest one I could find to your address. Give them a call

go to a few meetings and see what you think..(((((((hope3)))))))

N/AAlcoholics Anonymous (760) 951-9243 14240 Saint Andrews Dr, Victorville, CA 5.16 mi
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Old 02-24-2007, 06:45 AM
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Hi,

I am sorry for your situation and the pain you are feeling. But, you can this, and you can do it for yourself. There is lots of support here, so keep posting.
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