tuffenuff

Just SOOO sick of his drinking. YES, he made it through a whole 2 1/2 days of detox...........and maybe 2 days after he got back home...then 2 days "sneaking" a pint after I had gone to bed...then had to confess. Now back to full blown F'ING BS drinking.....my son is ONLY with us on weekends and he very much dislikes my BF (Not sure that even fits anymore?)
Now, ABF is convinced his appendix is going to burst so I have to go look that up...and can't continue venting.........................

denny57

Make a quick call for an ambulance and then come back and vent.

I'm sorry to hear the insanity continues. I know how awful and frustrating it can be.

mallowcup

Yup, call an ambulance. I would give him no choice, just call.

tuffenuff

Ah yeah...but he's FINE right now....sitting up...watching movie. Perked right up after his mother called and I put him on the phone to her.
A-Ma-Zing!

mallowcup

Well the character of a hot appendix is that the pain comes and goes until it comes and stays. If he complains again, I'd just call, if nothing else, you'll have a night to yourself to regroup.

Nuudawn

How long have you been with this guy? How much do you have invested here? You're son doesn't like him? What's keeping you with this man? What is your payoff or what are you afraid of by leaving?

Pick-a-name

Yup...I insisted my AH get treatment for his;he was angry and denying it...ruptured in the doctor's hand as it was removed in emergency surgery. Don't mess with it. Call 911 if you get too much argument from him.

WantsOut

I realize my reply is a little late but I'd call an ambulance, don't go with him to the hospital, and change the locks. Like you and your son need this crap.

StandingStrong

tuffenuff -
Your bf is drinking - again. And it appears that he's going to keep drinking.
Heck, he even thinks his appendix may burst but wants YOU to research it for him! Guess that kind of shows just how unmotivated he is about keeping in good health, in my opinion.

So tell me tuffenuff - what are you getting out of this relationship?


(I'm not even going to comment about your son as I'm unsure how that really relates to your story - sorry. Not sure if he's not there because of the boyfriend or if you were just explaining that he doesn't like your boyfriend and that is adding to your stress)