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Old 01-10-2007, 06:52 AM
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Too good to be true...........

Last at 10 pm the phone rang. I wa sin bed sleeping. My son answered. I could hear him saying "no I have to go to bed." And then he hung up.

It was you know who. When my son answered he apparently said hi then asked M if he wanted to talk to him.. I checked the phone this morning and I see he's called a few times since I gave him the cold shoulder on Saturday.

I told M this morning if he doesn't wantto talk to him him cheack to see who is calling and don't pick up. I feel funny saying that to him because I don't want him to be involved in ythis but I guess that is unrealistic on my part.

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Old 01-10-2007, 11:41 AM
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Hey Cat....

Unfortunally it is probably unrealistic to think the kids are spared...

You can however get help for him to understand and deal with it all. Hang in there....
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Old 01-10-2007, 08:37 PM
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Perhaps it would be easier for all to simply change your phone number. What do ya think?
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Old 01-11-2007, 05:04 PM
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How do you sin in bed sleeping? Sounds like fun. LOL

Sorry gal, you had a serious post, but I couldn't help it. Lv Ya
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Good one Zoey......lol
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Old 01-12-2007, 04:03 AM
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Now I get an e-mail this morning telling me he's going to be going to psychoanalysis every two weeks for the next year.
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Old 01-12-2007, 04:43 AM
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translation.....i wanna come home!!!!! lemmme come home!!!!!!! i'm sick....seeee????? i'm doin something about it, see!!!!!! lemme come home!

or maybe not, but it sure sounds familiar to me.

can you block his emails? would you consider blocking his emails? i know it's difficult to cut all contact.....been there.

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Old 01-12-2007, 09:27 AM
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The e-mail said it was my suggestion and he hoped it worked. And of course he had to throw in how e xpensive it will be. And that he's on meds now and that was also my suggestion.

Of course we can translate it to "it was your suggestion so if it doesn't work it's your fault."


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Old 01-12-2007, 10:14 AM
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and of course, the other translation is....he's still blaming you. poor guy.

it really is sad. i haven't heard from my x for quite a while now....and it's nice.....see, i don't even count days now. give this girl a cookie!!!!

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Old 01-12-2007, 10:31 AM
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Here's an Oreo for you. And, yes, it's "the quad."
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Old 01-13-2007, 06:14 AM
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He should enroll in a class that explains phone manners as well. Calling at 10:30pm to chat is bad manners. If people know they can dial your house at any hour they will. Why not turn off the ringer at 9pm? No one calls to chat at 10:30pm. They call when they are drunk or being selfish. There is power in that little button that silences the ringer. I see calls that come at any old time just the same as putting a swinging door on the front of the house. After 9pm, my household does not accept phone calls.
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Old 01-13-2007, 06:38 AM
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After 9 pm my household also does not accpet phone calls Mallowcup unless it's an emergency. That wasn't an emergency that was him either drunk or self-centered. I told my son next time check the caller I.D.

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I don't get it.
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Old 01-13-2007, 10:19 AM
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I think I would just caller ID it and not pick up, after a while it will get old and the calls will stop.
I've had the same number for over 5 years and too many people have it. I refuse to change mine.
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Old 01-13-2007, 10:47 AM
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I don't like the burdon being put on your son. How about this, you are not allowed to answer the phone after 9pm.
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Old 01-14-2007, 06:14 AM
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I didn't put the burden on my son to answer it Mallowcup.


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