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Old 01-01-2007, 05:44 PM
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My most resent and final, sobriety date was July 1st 2006

I can now look back on 6 full months of total sobriety.


After having drank for 30 years and used other drugs for various sustained period in my life Of have spent the last 6 month sober.

I have had good days and bad days.
The first 30 or so were the toughest, But now I laugh more, experience more, fell more and enjoy life more.


To all of you who are just beginning, give sobriety time to settle in and become a part of your life, after all you gave your DOC all the time IT wanted.

Give it time the rewards are worth it
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Old 01-01-2007, 07:07 PM
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Congratulations on your sober time!
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Old 01-01-2007, 08:08 PM
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Hey! It looks like we have the same birthdate! ... Congratulations NYCGirl!

I collected a six-month chip today. Later I drove it to the local lock-up to give it to the sheriff's deputy who helped me.

Isn't sobriety good!
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Old 01-02-2007, 08:11 AM
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I'll one up you on that Green Tea

Sobriety is Great.

Congrats on your chip!

I chose not to do the AA route I hate meetings and trying to schedual them would add to must stees to my already pre schedualed life.
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Old 01-02-2007, 08:24 AM
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Hmmmmn...when did you find the time to drink, NYC? Guess you were somehow able to fit it into your busy schedule then. Sorry you don't feel AA meetings are worth at least half that drinking time.

Would you perhaps consider that, because you are no longer drinking, you have more time to devote to your scheduled activities? Just a thought, one Jersey Girl to Another.
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Originally Posted by NYCGirl View Post
Give it time the rewards are worth it
Congrats on your 6 months, NYCG! Amazing how good life can be when taken one day at a time, clean & sober. I chose the AA route, but that's just what works for me. I still have the occasional bad day, but working a 12 Step program has shown me how to live life to the fullest and to get through the rough spots.
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Old 01-02-2007, 08:49 AM
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Thanks for the thoughts. I have given this much thought and still do.

I never did take time out of my "thinsgs to do" to drink. I drank along with my day. Shots while cleaing, single bottles accompanied me at all times, calss plays, swim lessons, doctors apppt ect. You know, don't leave home with out them. Never really needed time to drink.

So far so good, I need to squeeze gym time in I have been having trouble doing that since september. I am starting with 20 min on the tredmill this week and hope to add on from there. I enjoy excersising but it always seems to take a back seat.


Thanks for the input, AA just's not for me at least not right now.
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Old 01-02-2007, 09:27 AM
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NYCGIRL!!
you go girl.. congrads.. I am starting AGAIN today. I will not drink I will not drink I will not drink...
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Old 01-02-2007, 01:32 PM
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Although I am a firm believer in the Program of NA, I do however know that it isn't the only way, it is just my way and many others. My sister has over 6 years of being clean and sober. She was basically a alcoholic, but she has never been to a meeting.

She does come over once a week to visit and I go to her house once a week to visit. Other than that she has her Program and I have mine. I guess that we all need to find what works for ourselves.

I know that since 2002 I probably have only used around 100 days. That is huge progress for a addict such as myself. Now I am almost to 8 months, however it is still Just For Today. Congrats on you sober time

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Old 01-02-2007, 02:24 PM
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AA just's not for me at least not right now.
Fair enough, NYC. Just keep in mind that the meetings will always be there for you, if you need some extra help. I know there are plenty of good ones down your way, 'cause I used to make a point of going to them when I was on vacation at The Shore. I'll "mentally reserve" a seat for you at a couple of my favorites.
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Old 01-02-2007, 03:58 PM
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Congrats NYCGirl!!!

You rock!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 01-03-2007, 04:41 AM
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Thank Rae,

I'll keep you posted
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Old 01-03-2007, 06:27 AM
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Congrats, NYC girl! Keep up the good work.
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