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Old 12-11-2006, 06:38 PM
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Red face A well-needed change

I've been considering it for about a year, but today I finally made decision to dedicate myself toward becoming sober. I've told my closest friends, but they seem to think I'm kidding. I suppose that's because I have half-heartdly tried to quit a few times before.

If I don't sober up and stay sober I am going to ruin my life. I don't even enjoy being drunk - it's just something my body is drawn to. I am hoping that finding this support network will help me out. I have looked into AA, but I am not a fan of the religious aspect.

Wish me luck!
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Old 12-11-2006, 06:49 PM
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It sounds like you've made a good decision.

There is lots of support and information here.

Here is a list of various Recovery programs (courtesy of Carol):

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-programs.html
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Old 12-11-2006, 07:01 PM
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Thank you very much! I think I'll have a better chance of being successful if I can find a support group that matches my beliefs, so I can find some sober friends.
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Old 12-11-2006, 07:11 PM
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please be aware there are also different forums here, as well...secular being one of them.
i really hope you find the support you need here, and i commend you on your dedication to better your life.
if you need anything, there is someone here to help you 24/7
best of luck
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Old 12-11-2006, 07:32 PM
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I think it is a good decision to try sobriety, even if you are not fully commited to it. Give it a shot, and see what happens.

The other point I want to make is, don't give up if you don't succeed immedialtely.
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Old 12-12-2006, 03:32 AM
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Welcome to SR!

Here is a very interesting link for you

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...influence.html

Keep in touch..we can help you and we do understand
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Old 12-12-2006, 05:36 AM
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Welcome kiwi- you will find a lot of comfort and support here. Congrats on your decision.
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Welcome to SR!!! Congrats on your decission to get sober, it isnt easy but it is worth it! This place is great for support and knowledge!!! Stay strong!
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Old 12-13-2006, 12:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Stormtooth View Post
I think it is a good decision to try sobriety, even if you are not fully commited to it. Give it a shot, and see what happens.

The other point I want to make is, don't give up if you don't succeed immedialtely.

I AM fully commited this time. For the past year or so I've tried a couple times half-heartedly, but this time I'm not messing around. There are 2 or 3 holiday parties I am skipping because I know that the temptation will be too much. It's been two and a half days, and I'm still going strong!
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Old 12-13-2006, 01:02 PM
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way to go on your almost 3 days and your conviction! welcome to SR!
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Old 12-13-2006, 03:24 PM
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Welcome Kiwi, I think it's great you want
sobriety for you. I also think it's great you
are making a plan. You are on the right track
in my opinion, keep us posted. Wishing you the
best, Hop3.
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