Just a quicky
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Just a quicky
Just thought I'd stop in and read around a while. Havn't been by too much to do, kids, work, coaching, grad classes.
I've been getting a little ansy with the holidays and all. Hubby thinks I've quit for long enough and it be okay if I have just a few for the holidays... he just doesn't get it does he.
Anyway if I make it through, New Years Morning I awaken to the second half of my first year of sobriety since I was 15, yeah me.
I have few thoughts I need some help with, but I am out of time, have two papers due this week, I'll be back.
gotta go,
love ya all.
I've been getting a little ansy with the holidays and all. Hubby thinks I've quit for long enough and it be okay if I have just a few for the holidays... he just doesn't get it does he.
Anyway if I make it through, New Years Morning I awaken to the second half of my first year of sobriety since I was 15, yeah me.
I have few thoughts I need some help with, but I am out of time, have two papers due this week, I'll be back.
gotta go,
love ya all.
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I've been telling myself the same thing your hub is telling you. Now I'll tell you what I'm trying to tell myself now.
DON'T DO IT!! It's just not worth going back to all the painful head games and unfortunately that's where it will go. Fix yourself some fancy fruity non alc drink or some sparkling grape juice and relax with a calm mind.
DON'T DO IT!! It's just not worth going back to all the painful head games and unfortunately that's where it will go. Fix yourself some fancy fruity non alc drink or some sparkling grape juice and relax with a calm mind.
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(((NYCgirl!))) It's so good to see you 
And trust me--no matter what your H says, it is SO NOT worth it to have "a few" over the holidays.....I fell in to that trap recently, and it reawakened the alcohol monster in my brain. Like C'est said, it'll start all those crazy head games all over again.
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Jane
And trust me--no matter what your H says, it is SO NOT worth it to have "a few" over the holidays.....I fell in to that trap recently, and it reawakened the alcohol monster in my brain. Like C'est said, it'll start all those crazy head games all over again.
xo
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[QUOTE=janeeyre;1126577.....I fell in to that trap recently, and it reawakened the alcohol monster in my brain. [/QUOTE]
It's so true, I have watched people over the years quit and restart again, it always seems that they are worse off each time around.
I reminded him of some bad episodes and explained that most of the time I can control how much I drink It the times I can't control that I can't control.
I think he gets it sorta.
It's so true, I have watched people over the years quit and restart again, it always seems that they are worse off each time around.
I reminded him of some bad episodes and explained that most of the time I can control how much I drink It the times I can't control that I can't control.
I think he gets it sorta.
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