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Old 12-03-2006, 06:39 PM
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Past coming back to haunt me

well just got a call and my past has come back to haunt me. nothing too terrible but just fixing up things i did wrong in the past. i got a message from my ex (a girl i lived with for 5 years who is basically the meat and potatoes of my 4th/9th step. a year ago when i was literally at bottom i had rented a DVD on her account at the local video store. never returned it while i entered treatment. they called her today and told her about it. she informed me and i called the video store. turns out i owe $150 to them. not really in position to do it right this moment, but will be in the near future. its right by my wednesday home group so i figure ill give them what i can wednesday and make arrangements to pay off the rest (maybe $50 a week). anyways just goes to show you that i reprocussions for my behavior and thankfully im sober so ill be able to ultimately fix this.
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Old 12-03-2006, 06:45 PM
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Dealing with the messes we've made is part of recovery. Sometimes things can be fixed and sometimes they cannot. I'm glad that you can fix this one.
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Old 12-04-2006, 12:04 AM
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It's good to hear that you're taking steps to fix your messes. It's a good sign for your healthy future.
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Old 12-04-2006, 02:12 AM
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Yup. 8th & 9th step work. Good job !
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Old 12-04-2006, 03:15 PM
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Chicago, I think it's great you are going to own up to your mistake, but in our area the max that can be charged is the price of the video. I guess chicago is tough on late fees.
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Old 12-04-2006, 03:59 PM
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That does sound a bit steep to me, but your doing the right thing making restitution to them...

Way to go!!!

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Old 12-05-2006, 04:13 AM
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You are being whacked, ask for the manager, explain the situation, and offer him $ 50.00, and at that you are being generous.

I have been in many similar situations, and ALWAYS found reasonable people willing to work things out.

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