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Old 11-05-2006, 05:07 PM
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Fiance gets out of rehab tommorrow

My fiance gets out tommorrow and is confused. I love her but dont know how to approach our problems. I think she is scared and pushing me away, i dont want to loose her. Help me out.
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Old 11-05-2006, 05:38 PM
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Hi and Welcome,

I am sure that your fiance is scared and confused. It might be helpful for you to check out the Friends and Families forum on this board. You'll find lots of support there.
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Old 11-06-2006, 12:36 AM
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Distancing is a common method of coping with high stress, and I'm sure she is feeling quite a bit of stress. I would suggest that you give her the space that she needs while showing that you still love her and care about her health and happiness. If you try too hard to smother her with attention it may only push her further away. It takes time to change for the better, so allow it.

It's good to see you posting at SR and I also suggest you check out the Friends and Family forum here.
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