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Old 11-30-2005, 09:19 PM
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Forward we go...side by side-Rest In Peace
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Angry sigh

and they still die. My friends.

S alone in a crummy room filled with empty bottles
V fell from a 12th floor balcony
B hit a bridge head on with his wife 3 children survive.

Untreated alcoholism kills. No exceptions.

Please do not muck around with
"Am I?" or "Yes, but" thinking.

Recovery requires action.
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Old 11-30-2005, 09:28 PM
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I know exactly what you mean carol

Friend tried unsucessfully to hang herself 3 days ago, turning off life support today.

its a filthy rotten disease

HUGX
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Old 11-30-2005, 09:29 PM
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Originally Posted by CarolD
Recovery requires action.
No one HAS to die from this disease, but some do and that reminds us that this disease kills.

(...)

There is a way out. There is a solution. May all of us find it now.
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Old 11-30-2005, 09:34 PM
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Originally Posted by CarolD
and they still die. My friends.

S alone in a crummy room filled with empty bottles

Untreated alcoholism kills. No exceptions.
Oh, Carol.

The *S* I knew in a crummy room filled with empty bottles was named Stan.

He committed suicide. I found him. He was my friend, and I miss him.

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Old 11-30-2005, 09:40 PM
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I know exactly what you mean carol

Friend tried unsucessfully to hang herself 3 days ago, turning off life support today.

its a filthy rotten disease

HUGX
Lee
(((Hugs))) Lee.

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Old 11-30-2005, 09:49 PM
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How errie Autumn... You gave me shivers.

Yes my friend was Stan. He lived in D.C..
He was too decomposed to have a definitive cause of death.

Sweetie...how terrible for you to find your Stan. Hugs

Lee...extra hugs for you.

and Phinny.....Thank you for sharing.
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Old 11-30-2005, 10:03 PM
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How errie Autumn... You gave me shivers.

Yes my friend was Stan. He lived in D.C..
He was too decomposed to have a definitive cause of death.

Sweetie...how terrible for you to find your Stan. Hugs

Lee...extra hugs for you.

and Phinny.....Thank you for sharing.
Thanks, Carol. Even though it's been 8 years, I think about him almost every day (especially now that I'm clean). He would have so enjoyed this site, and everyone would have loved him here. I think about would it would have been like to see his name on a post. He was such a good person, and so full of humor. Really, really smart too. I'll never forget that day.

And I'm sorry about your Stan too.

*sigh*

My nose is running.
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Old 12-01-2005, 07:44 AM
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We can honor their memories by remembering the lesson they have offered us with their lives. We can keep _our_ program strong and healthy so that nobody ever has to mourn us the way we mourn them.

Mike :-)
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Old 12-01-2005, 08:05 AM
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I had an adult freind who I knew passed away from Liver Failure, from alcoholism a few years ago. He was such a great guy, good freind, he would give the shirt off his back if you needed it...

I lost another good freind in an automobile accident due to alcohol use....

When I abused alcohol after that I always felt like death was right around the corner for me. I was so on edge. With the cycle of dehydration, blood sugar, and my own anxiety, and dealing with the death internally one morning when I was hungover I had a violent panic attack . I thought it was a heart attack. I remember thinking this is it... Not to change the thread but anyone who has high anxiety or panic attacks knows what I am talking about.

One more reason to stay away from that "crap"
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Old 12-01-2005, 08:49 AM
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"Jails....Institutions......and death....." is not a myth or a "boogey man story" to scare wayward drinkers.......it is a fact that occurs daily.......
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Old 12-01-2005, 03:41 PM
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(((Carol)))
I'm sorry for your loss...

Shalom!
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Old 12-01-2005, 08:21 PM
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"and they still die. My friends.

S alone in a crummy room filled with empty bottles
V fell from a 12th floor balcony
B hit a bridge head on with his wife 3 children survive.

Untreated alcoholism kills. No exceptions. "


I'm very sorry to hear that. An alcoholic friend of mine died about half a year ago, penniless and desperate. I still think it might have been suicide, but we don't know for sure.
The other mutual friends seem to be following in his footsteps financially and spiritually.

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Old 12-01-2005, 09:25 PM
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Uncanny, my brother was named Stan .. he died this year in April. I cried and cried and cried, BUT he is at peace at last. Alcoholism took him fast and hard, he was so miserable.

So sad, such a loss.

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