Vik88

Being sober long enough. so i can meet a nice women. i'm a long bit from that. but i want her to know about my past. am i domed? what do you think?

Patcha

You're not doomed. None of us are perfect. We all have a past that includes things we don't like. I also think you don't have to tell someone all the gruesome details of why you don't drink. You can just say you stopped drinking for your health or some such. It won't be a lie! We are much healthier when we don't ingest poison.

Dee74

I don’t think anyone is doomed Vik
I think you need to focus on yourself and your recovery right now tho.

Give yourself a chance to know who sober you is before you offer that to someone else

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Vik88

thank you all for the kind words. dee, you're right. just wanted to know if i'm doomed.

Dee74

If I can find recovery, anyone can
I just had to work at staying sober more than I worked at staying drunk..y'know?

Vik88

absolutely. thank you all for the kind words, i do think i have to tell her sometime. hopefully she will understand. but as dee said.gotta fix this first. i'm so glad to be here.

Hevyn

Vik - I once thought I was doomed. I'd made a huge mess of my life & figured no one would want anything to do with the fallout from it. I was wrong!
We're glad you're here, too. Proud of you for taking action.

least

you're not doomed

Vik88

I wanna say again, i'm glad that i met you all . working on my problem. glad that you're all here

Dee74

we're glad you're here too Vik
hows is your recovery going?

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Vik88

going quite good. thank you ..there is though a while before i can meet that person. but working on it