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Thanks Mike, I believe perhaps we come at this problem from slightly different angles, but I absolutely agree with your statement that 'some change of personality or reaction to life is required for the sufferer to stop returning to the old solution when life throws a curveball'. I believe that's a very important truth, and that people can strive towards it in various ways.
You could also consider what the outcome might look like. For me a psychic change resulted in an ability to deal with and participate in life in much the same way as any other human being - able to experience fully the ups and downs, joys and tragedies, successes and failures that life brings. That to me is a good outcome.
In the medical sense it is also possible to experience a kind of palliative care model where one takes a medication so suppress the symptoms/ bad feelings or reactions. The trouble with this approach is that one cannot suppress the bad without also suppressing the good so, I am told, one tends to feel not much of anything. That would not be a good outcome for me.
So the challenge remains to bring on a significant change that results in a net benefit, i.e. a big improvement in quality of life. I am always open to ideas on how that can be accomplished.
If I'm offered a drink, I just say, no thanks, I don't drink. And if pressed, I just say, I used to drink, that's why I don't drink anymore. And if I'm still pressed about it, I just ask them, does it bother you that I don't drink? And that usually shuts them up for good.
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Hey Mamatembo,
Did you get your results back? Just to say I quit alcohol 74 days ago and I definitely experienced nausea, some dizziness and really just generally feeling under the weather - I didn't go to the doctor (probably should have done, you're more sensible than me!) but I'm no longer experiencing those symptoms - I also had (while I was still drinking) liver pain which was starting to worry me - this has also disappeared, it would appear the liver is a strong organ! Hope things are going well.
Billy x
Also...now that you got the good news..don't forget what I said last week...
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