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Old 09-04-2018, 10:09 PM
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Today was another great day...

Right before I got sober, I burned a bridge.....BADLY

One of my best friends in the world basically told me to get the f%$k out of his life and forget he existed.

At my year mark, I wrote him..he ignored me.

So another 18 months went by.

This week was 2 years and 6 months. I finally wrote him again and after a few one worded answers from him, and we ended up texting for the next 7 hours. We met up tonight and hung out catching up.

I got to tell him how terrible I felt and about how I had treated him. That I was a terrible friend and that he didn't deserve the sickness I threw at him.
I told him I know I didn't deserve another shot at friendship, but I needed to tell him that I really have changed everything about myself that was killing me.

I told him I still had work to do and I owned my s#it.

So we're talking again and I don't know where this is gonna go. I just know for everyone who thinks that when someone tells you to go f$%k off and get bent...change everything about yourself, climb out of hell, and you might change a few minds.

Don't EVER give up trying to make a life worth being proud of.
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Old 09-04-2018, 11:40 PM
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That's redemption right there.

That's awesome you got a good friend back.
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Old 09-05-2018, 02:53 AM
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Love it, BullDog! Never give up!!!
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Old 09-05-2018, 03:00 AM
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That is just awesome to read. I'm so happy for you and that you got to show your friend you had changed and were taking responsibility.

I think that is recovery right there!

Thank you for sharing
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Old 09-05-2018, 05:46 AM
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That's awesome Bulldog! Nice job.
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Old 09-05-2018, 06:47 AM
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What an uplifting post and amend.

It sounds like you're feeling happy, joyous and free.

And you certainly should be.
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Old 09-05-2018, 06:51 AM
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Love this story!
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Old 09-05-2018, 10:44 AM
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Good for you!

Very very brave.
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Old 09-06-2018, 10:29 AM
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That’s great, bulldog!
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