Depersonalization, Dreams of relapse and Frustration (Day 105)

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12-05-2017, 08:41 AM

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calvinm16

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Originally Posted by Stayingsassy

There are all different kinds of ladies!

. Sure a lot are drinkers but I’ve met many at the gym who do not drink. The venue you meet women in makes a difference.

If I were single I’d be actively looking for a sober man, fwiw.

haha well that gives me hope. I go to the gym but it's not really a place to pickup chicks.

I gotta change my tactics and places that used to work I suppose. Pretty much was thinking I'm doomed for life, not only can I not drink but can't have a girlfriend was my selfish attitude haha.

12-07-2017, 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by calvinm16

haha well that gives me hope. I go to the gym but it's not really a place to pickup chicks.

I gotta change my tactics and places that used to work I suppose. Pretty much was thinking I'm doomed for life, not only can I not drink but can't have a girlfriend was my selfish attitude haha.

Isn’t the gym a standard place to pick up chicks when you don’t drink? I feel like every time I go in there I’m getting the once over, lol. I’m older (48) so my husband jokes that the men probably think I’m some divorced cougar and an easy target. Maybe you could step up your game? Maybe that’s not an appropriate thing to say in SR...I know lots of people in here say not to date. I think it’s up to the individual though, if I weren’t married I’d be dating because I don’t like being single, so I’m not going to be a hypocrite and tell everyone they should be single.