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Old 05-04-2017, 10:38 PM
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Don't know what to do..

Hey guys need help in this latest relapse, looking for support, thanks in advance..
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Old 05-04-2017, 10:41 PM
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Can't stop drinking, can't believe this..
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Old 05-04-2017, 10:42 PM
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..pretty much sober now, but afraid to go back..
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Have you got rid of all of the alcohol bud
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Old 05-04-2017, 10:48 PM
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Hi Mtphc

I spent a lot of time here in my early days....he support really helped.

Are you open to maybe trying other things like seeing your Dr, or a counselor?

Maybe AA or some other meeting based programme like SMART Recovery or Lifering?

I know you've been in hospital before - is rehab an option?

I know it's exhausting binging and recovering but you really will get out of your recovery what you put into it.

Noone needs to life that alcoholic life a second longer than they want to - but you've got to be prepared to do some things and take some action.

Whats the least hardest thing in the suggestions I've made?
maybe start with that?

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Old 05-04-2017, 10:56 PM
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This is a horrible existence, that's all I have to say right now..
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Old 05-04-2017, 10:59 PM
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Maybe just deal with the immediate stuff for now - pour out whats left, drink some water, get some shut eye?

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Old 05-04-2017, 11:36 PM
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Thanks Dee, trying my best right now..
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Old 05-04-2017, 11:55 PM
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Welcome Mtphc,

The first few days are the worst of it. To get sober you need to not pick up. You need to fight for it right now. AA central in your area should have people available to call. If not call the next closest and so on. you'll get a voice to chat with. Post here as often as you want. Post here before picking up too. Right now you need to just live in the moment don't drink for the next 5 minutes then repeat. Read, go for walks, drink a ton of water, eat Whole Foods and don't F'n drink booze.
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Old 05-05-2017, 07:09 AM
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Hope today can be a better day Mtphc....don't buy anymore alcohol and dump out anything you have left. Today could be the day that you do something different too - see a doctor, go to a meeting, get some recovery related books, etc. You can make the change happen if you truly want to.
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what happened to this from the other day:
"....and i just have to take action, go to as many meetings that I can, and work the steps ."
???????

did you go to any meetings from the time ya started your last thread?

M, ya say ya need help. if like me, you needed help a long time ago.
when I wanted help AND was willing do go to any lengths for victory over alcohol, that's when the miracle started happening.
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Old 05-05-2017, 04:12 PM
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how are things Mtphc?
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Old 05-05-2017, 04:29 PM
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Hi Mtphc,
This really is hard in the beginning , when those urges start try to find something else to do to take your mind of drinking, anything, housework , go for a walk , ring a friend , just get busy . Sending strength your way.
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I find reading to be helpful when I need to get my mind off things it shouldn't be on.
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Old 05-05-2017, 07:16 PM
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Things r bad right now, have missed too much work, yes I know, have mentioned meetings and all but when you're an alcoholic it's not easy. I'm going through a freaking binge right now, it's lasted days.

I want to thank everybody here, your comments have helped me immensely, but I just can't stop, I feel dizzy, nauseous. I think I'm close to alcohol poisoning. This is where I'm at right now, and I'm not looking for attention, I'm simply speaking my mind
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Old 05-05-2017, 07:21 PM
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sounds like the ER would be a place to be if you are in that state right now.
can you call someone to help you get to a detox?
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Old 05-05-2017, 07:27 PM
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..just had dinner, this is helping me, just have to focus on recovery..
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Old 05-05-2017, 07:41 PM
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when you're an alcoholic it's not easy.
no its not but that's no reason to do nothing but drink some more, or to give up trying.

I'm an alcoholic too - we all are here - it took hard work but I got sober and I stayed sober.

If I can do it you can too

If you're in the middle of a binge and you're worried about withdrawal, see a Dr, man.

A meeting sounds great too.

No matter how ill I was I could always make it to the liquor store...

go get some help mtphc- end the madness

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Old 05-05-2017, 07:57 PM
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Thanks, Dee, this is affecting my whole family. Yes it feels selfish, but at the same time it's not due to family issues, the time
Came where it just became too much..
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Don't drink
Don't drink,
No matter what, you get the clue
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