Thought I was doin' well
Thought I was doin' well
Hi everyone
I stayed dry for over a month in August and felt extremely pleased with myself.
I have slipped off the wagon in September/October. This hurt me badly and made my g/f extremely unhappy.
I have realised that although I was abstaining from alcohol, I was not actually in recovery. Well I took a big step today and have arranged to attend my first AA meeting on Thursday. I think that's actually taking full responsibility for my actions. I feel a bit nervous, but also immensely proud by taking the decision.
It may be that it doesn't work, but I'm going to see how it goes for a few weeks at least.
I have a lot of work to do on myself and on my relationship. I look forward to big improvements in both over the coming weeks.
Will keep you all posted.
Rich
I stayed dry for over a month in August and felt extremely pleased with myself.
I have slipped off the wagon in September/October. This hurt me badly and made my g/f extremely unhappy.
I have realised that although I was abstaining from alcohol, I was not actually in recovery. Well I took a big step today and have arranged to attend my first AA meeting on Thursday. I think that's actually taking full responsibility for my actions. I feel a bit nervous, but also immensely proud by taking the decision.
It may be that it doesn't work, but I'm going to see how it goes for a few weeks at least.
I have a lot of work to do on myself and on my relationship. I look forward to big improvements in both over the coming weeks.
Will keep you all posted.
Rich
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Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Zion, Illinois
Posts: 3,411
Originally Posted by Dunitall
It may be that it doesn't work, but I'm going to see how it goes for a few weeks at least.
I have a lot of work to do on myself and on my relationship. I look forward to big improvements in both over the coming weeks.
Will keep you all posted.Rich
I have a lot of work to do on myself and on my relationship. I look forward to big improvements in both over the coming weeks.
Will keep you all posted.Rich
That's a good decision and a big step. You need to realize though that AA only works as well as I work it. Don't expect any miracles too soon. Just be patient and go to a lot of meetings. Above all, let the people at the meetings know where you're coming from. They can't help if they don't know you need help.
I'm still working on myself and my relationships. Not only with my wife but with everyone I come in contact with. It's a daily effort I have to be conscious of from now on. Constant vigilance!!!
Aestas
What can I say? Just back from my first AA meeting and I can't believe I didn't go sooner. It was absolutely awesome and I feel so at home speaking with everyone there.
It is great to know that there are so many people who are prepared to help.
I have always told my long suffering g/f how much I love and appreciate her. However, the truth I can see now is that she has felt neither loved nor appreciated for a long time.
Boy have I got the message now. Going to another meeting on Saturday.
Have you been since your first meeting?
Good luck to everyone
Rich
What can I say? Just back from my first AA meeting and I can't believe I didn't go sooner. It was absolutely awesome and I feel so at home speaking with everyone there.
It is great to know that there are so many people who are prepared to help.
I have always told my long suffering g/f how much I love and appreciate her. However, the truth I can see now is that she has felt neither loved nor appreciated for a long time.
Boy have I got the message now. Going to another meeting on Saturday.
Have you been since your first meeting?
Good luck to everyone
Rich
Member
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: West Yorkshire, UK
Posts: 9
Hi Rich
So pleased for you!!!! ;-))))) Really chuffed you got there, I've been tonight to a second meeting, and again, thought it was brilliant. I just get a real kick out speaking to people who know exactly what I am talking about. They don't sneer, or tell me to "just stop" etc etc, they understand and KNOW why I am there. Amongst the many great things which were said to me, was this one quote:
"No matter how many doctors you see, you will never find such expert help and experience of alcoholism as you will in this one room". Not word for word, but think you will get the gist!
I have basically surrendered. I know I can;t do this alone.
Keep smiling, one day at a time, keep in touch and let me know how Saturday goes.
X
So pleased for you!!!! ;-))))) Really chuffed you got there, I've been tonight to a second meeting, and again, thought it was brilliant. I just get a real kick out speaking to people who know exactly what I am talking about. They don't sneer, or tell me to "just stop" etc etc, they understand and KNOW why I am there. Amongst the many great things which were said to me, was this one quote:
"No matter how many doctors you see, you will never find such expert help and experience of alcoholism as you will in this one room". Not word for word, but think you will get the gist!
I have basically surrendered. I know I can;t do this alone.
Keep smiling, one day at a time, keep in touch and let me know how Saturday goes.
X
Member
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: West Yorkshire, UK
Posts: 9
P.S. Forgot one thing, your girlfriend will hopefully feel more loved and appreciated now you have made this big step, by showing respect for yourself, you can only be a better partner to her. Hope you know what I mean.
Hi Aestas & Marty
Just back from my 2nd AA meeting and it's been a fantastic day.
We had a big group today - 35 of us. I decided it was time to share my story. I said I would keep it short, but 25 minutes later.......Anyway, I found great support from everyone. It means so much to me. As does all the support on this board.
Thanks to you all, I continue to feel very positive, happy and confident.
Hope all is just as good for everyone here.
Rich
Just back from my 2nd AA meeting and it's been a fantastic day.
We had a big group today - 35 of us. I decided it was time to share my story. I said I would keep it short, but 25 minutes later.......Anyway, I found great support from everyone. It means so much to me. As does all the support on this board.
Thanks to you all, I continue to feel very positive, happy and confident.
Hope all is just as good for everyone here.
Rich
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