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Old 12-28-2016, 12:28 PM
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I was sober for a long time, and then had a baby daughter yesterday, which caused me to go into an emotional tailspin and I drank. Onwards and upwards, I have stopped drinking and am posting here to hold myself accountable
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Congratulations on the birth of your baby daughter! That's wonderful!
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Old 12-28-2016, 12:32 PM
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Hi Dirk!

You know how to be sober, so you can do this! Shake off the booze and become the parent your girl deserves!
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Old 12-28-2016, 12:38 PM
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Welcome back and congrats on your new arrival Dirk. We are here if you need support - things can be pretty crazy with a new child but staying sober is even more important now, let us know how we can help.
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Old 12-28-2016, 12:43 PM
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It's a very emotional experience I feel guilty that it hit me so hard given I didn't actually give birth! But staying sober is the most important thing now
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It's a very emotional experience I feel guilty that it hit me so hard given I didn't actually give birth! But staying sober is the most important thing now
Yes, it's probably one of the most emotional experiences one will ever go through in their lives. It's pretty witnessing the essence of life itself, really - but it's a wonderful new beginning. What kind of support network did you use in your previous sober time - do you think maybe adding to it would help?
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Old 12-28-2016, 01:35 PM
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Welcome back Dirk ... Congratulations
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Old 12-28-2016, 01:57 PM
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Welcome back Dirk ... Congratulations
I've got my dad, my counselor from rehab if anything goes pear shaped,
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Congrats on your daughter Dirk.

Our addiction will use anything - good bad or indifferent - to get its fix.
A brand new baby daughter is a heck of a good reason to stay sober, IMO.

She needs a sober daddy

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Thanks Dee 😀
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Congratulations, yes just about anything can trigger a drink...new baby, great reason to stay sober
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Old 12-28-2016, 04:14 PM
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Congratulations, dirk! My heart just lightened with your news and your determination. Thank you.
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Shake it off buddy. Congrats on the new addition to the family!
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