mpr

To make matters worse I now find out the girlfriend has been cheating on me....

LadyBug66

Sorry. Do you now suspect her of taking your money?

Stellar45

If someone I cared so deeply for was willing to risk hurting me emotionally then why would I put it past them from hurting me financially? I apologize for sounding so harsh but it's a point worth considering. I hope things get better for you. I really do.

mpr

No I don't believe she stole the money, she was just drunk and sloppy that night. After I found out she cheated I demanded she compensate me for at least half of what I lost, she sent me a email transfer upon getting paid for the money. She wouldn't steal from me but she would cheat on me.

I don't even care about the money any longer. I am just devastated that after being with her for years she would have an ongoing affair behind my back. It's like this past week everything just came crashing down on me.

ScottFromWI

Sometimes it does seem like things come crashing down all at once mpr, sorry you are in the middle of all this. Staying sober will help you deal with all of it though, stay strong and reach out for help if you need it.

LadyBug66

As Scott said. You are going thru a real tough time; stay strong and reach out for help if you need it. Praying helps too.

mpr

Thanks guys, trying my best to deal and stay away from drinking.

Done4today

Glad you're back, hope that money turns up.

mpr

Not worried about the money. She paid me half out of guilt and I've made the rest back more or less, learned a lesson too. I am just more upset about her cheating on me.... Not sure what kind of human being that supposedly loves you can do this.