My Cousin drinks but isn't an alcoholic
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My Cousin drinks but isn't an alcoholic
He cracks open a bottle of beer after work each evening. One bottle. No more. No less. He doesn't get wasted. He doesn't try to get wasted. As long as he can have that one bottle. He's good.
Even at BBQ parties, he has always manage to just have one beer the whole entire day, or evening.
He can't remember the last time he got physically drunk. He said it was back in College but those were few and far between.
I know of this because he's my cousin and I've been around him. He's a one beer guy. I don't know how he does it but he said this to me:
"Have you ever tried to drink more than one bottle of Coke?"
And I said "No."
"Exactly."
Even at BBQ parties, he has always manage to just have one beer the whole entire day, or evening.
He can't remember the last time he got physically drunk. He said it was back in College but those were few and far between.
I know of this because he's my cousin and I've been around him. He's a one beer guy. I don't know how he does it but he said this to me:
"Have you ever tried to drink more than one bottle of Coke?"
And I said "No."
"Exactly."
Went out to dinner yesterday and my wife didn't finish her wine. I told her anyone who left alcohol on the table is guilty of alcohol abuse. She laughed and said that is why you have a problem and I don't
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You notice this and it makes you feel jealous and bitter, no? I totally feel you on this... My best friend tells a story of once being at a party when "suddenly" all his friends stopped drinking. He asked them why and they said they were all out of mixers, so they stopped drinking, they could not make any more drinks. My friend was not just baffled but pissed off because he couldn't understand why, HOW, they could just be done drinking when there was still plenty of alcohol left. And I completely get that, because I am an alcoholic. I will never understand just having one drink or having any sort of a voluntary stopping point. And I HATE IT that other people can effortlessly handle something that just runs me...
"...easily able to control his desire for alcohol, the only effort necessary being that required to follow a few simple rules." Doctor's opinion.
" We will see that our new attitude toward liquor has been given us without any thought or effort on our part. It just comes! That is the miracle of it." 10 step promises.
Both these quotes are true in my experience. Staying sober is almost effortless as it never occurs to me to drink. I have this whole new attitude, and it came as the result of working those steps, not with skill, but with honesty and an open mind.
" We will see that our new attitude toward liquor has been given us without any thought or effort on our part. It just comes! That is the miracle of it." 10 step promises.
Both these quotes are true in my experience. Staying sober is almost effortless as it never occurs to me to drink. I have this whole new attitude, and it came as the result of working those steps, not with skill, but with honesty and an open mind.
A good start. LOL
That's what I call the first ten years!
But, I know what y'all are on about.
My wife has one or two bottles of beer a month.
Sometimes she doesn't finish a 12 ounce bottle.
Doesn't make me angry or jealous.
Makes for a cheap night out . . .
nowadays.
That's what I call the first ten years!
But, I know what y'all are on about.
My wife has one or two bottles of beer a month.
Sometimes she doesn't finish a 12 ounce bottle.
Doesn't make me angry or jealous.
Makes for a cheap night out . . .
nowadays.
Your cousin is like 98% of the people I know.
I went to a Halloween party (after sobriety) and there were 12 beers (total, in the house) for eight people. There was one beer left when everyone went home.
I went to a Halloween party (after sobriety) and there were 12 beers (total, in the house) for eight people. There was one beer left when everyone went home.
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