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Old 05-27-2016, 01:02 AM
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Day 4 hope I don't become a bore

Still in there and thanks everyone for all your support. It really helps.
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Old 05-27-2016, 01:28 AM
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SR is here for you to past as much as you want or need Ian

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Old 05-27-2016, 02:32 AM
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You were a bore before. Now you are rejoining the human race. Nothing boring about that
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Old 05-27-2016, 02:47 AM
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Happy to see you are still moving forward. Early sobriety is tough, but many people have done it. Try to focus on each day as much as you can. The only day that counts is today. Before you know it, those todays will add up and become weeks than months. Hope you keep posting, Always nice to see people succeed. John
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Old 05-27-2016, 03:33 AM
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Reading about somebody winning over alcohol is NEVER boring. Keep it up, Ian!
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Old 05-27-2016, 05:45 AM
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Day 4 is awesome! Don't worry about what others think. You're here to get well! That is never boring.
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Old 05-28-2016, 02:18 AM
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Day 5

Thanks for all the support, still sober.😊
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Old 05-28-2016, 02:29 AM
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Now I'm sober and realise how much drunk people repeat themselves and talk endlessly about themselves, what they thing and want and how little interest they have in other people or things, and am able to reflect honestly, I realise that actually I was far more of a bore when I was a drunk than I am now while I'm sober. Nowadays, I'm happy to listen rather than just spew my own self-obsessed garbage into everyone's ears. And if I have nothing to say, I am able to keep quiet because I don't feel the need to keep pushing myself into the centre of things.
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Old 05-28-2016, 02:52 AM
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Ianww,

Getting sober is embracing reality...it let's us know our true self.

No more drunken ramblings followed by hours hungover sitting around.

Now sober, my days are full of activity. Chores, shopping, excercise, exploration, tinkering. Sobriety is freedom.

When drunk, I was restricted to my house usually, unless I wanted to drukenly walk or ride my bicycle around the town. Not fun.

This being the 2nd day of a 4 day weekend for me...before...I would be so passed out right now...wake up...heart beating out of my chest..,head pounding...exhausted...anxiety ridden, guilty feeling....wondering if I left the stove on or something....

I feel fresh now...strong and clear as a bell. So free.

Stay clean. Change your life a bit.

Sobriety is how we were designed to live. There is not a living thing on earth that is designed to ingest alcohol and flurish. Alcohol is a brain altering toxin.

Don't believe the marketing hype we have been exposed to since birth. It is all nonsense.

Proudly sober.
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Old 05-28-2016, 04:59 AM
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You're doing great! Keep it up, Ian.
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Old 05-28-2016, 09:48 AM
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It's good to hear you check in, Ian. hang in there!!
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Old 05-29-2016, 04:06 AM
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Back again to touch base day 6

One more day and it will be a week. Feel a he'll of a lot better than this time last week & yes, I spend more time being aware of others than myself. Thanks everyone 😊
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Congrats on your progress Ian

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Old 05-29-2016, 04:21 AM
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A week is HUGE! Just wait til you get to a month, a year, etc. You CAN do this!
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Old 05-30-2016, 03:17 AM
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Made it to day seven. Thanks everyone. Long way to go, but I feel I have future and more importantly a hear and now.��
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Old 05-30-2016, 05:05 AM
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Congrats on One Full Week of Sobriety!

Excellent Job Ian--glad you are feeling better
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Old 05-30-2016, 07:00 AM
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One day at a time. Before you know it, those days add up!
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Old 05-30-2016, 02:48 PM
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way to go on the week Ian

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Proud of you, Ian. You're doing this .
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Old 05-31-2016, 09:12 PM
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Well I've made it to day 9 and owe an awful lot to your encouragement, so thanks and well done all of you!!!
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