lifes ups and downs
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lifes ups and downs
This may not be a big deal to some but I figured I'd post this up as it might help those going through tough stuff think about how can this be a good situation.
As many know I run and I run a lot. I run about 50-70 miles a week.
I'm in the process of changing to a more minimal shoe and correcting my running form so that I ca have less injuries moving forward etc.. Long term this is a good idea for me.
Now here is the difficult part. As I started fixing my form I started getting more and more sore each day. I also at about this point threw in a nice minimal shoe into the game to help me really get this down. So in comes my vibram 5 fingers to the mix. The first day with those I ran 3 miles which was just a nice easy slow run for me and for those in the know prolly too much for a first run in vibrams lol.
So now I have some good pain going on. The following day I struggled to run a 10 minute mile then kinda hobbled around for another mile.
So I'm depressed but I'm also humbled. I probably needed to be taken down a notch I made running look easy and was pretty proud of my ability as i should be I worked very hard to get to where i was.
So does this have me down? Oh yeah. But I know long term this will be for the better. I know I have to go throught his process as much as I dont want too.
Just like with quiting drinking. I could easily put on one of my other pairs of shoes and go running like I once did in bad form and be ok just to get my "fix" but why? I'm trying to instill new habits here.
So much like my early days of sobriety where I sat there wishing crying I could just have a few drinks to ease this pain I new that long term that was no solution and that I had to push forward through the process.
I heard a guy talk about desire and want yest. Say you really want a drink. and you finally get that drink is there happiness in that drink? or did you just relieve the agitation and frustration of your desire for a drink?
anyhow I post this to show that yea life can be a struggle and it can stink and hurt and be depressing and sad but it can also be for the best and could just be making you stronger and better.
As many know I run and I run a lot. I run about 50-70 miles a week.
I'm in the process of changing to a more minimal shoe and correcting my running form so that I ca have less injuries moving forward etc.. Long term this is a good idea for me.
Now here is the difficult part. As I started fixing my form I started getting more and more sore each day. I also at about this point threw in a nice minimal shoe into the game to help me really get this down. So in comes my vibram 5 fingers to the mix. The first day with those I ran 3 miles which was just a nice easy slow run for me and for those in the know prolly too much for a first run in vibrams lol.
So now I have some good pain going on. The following day I struggled to run a 10 minute mile then kinda hobbled around for another mile.
So I'm depressed but I'm also humbled. I probably needed to be taken down a notch I made running look easy and was pretty proud of my ability as i should be I worked very hard to get to where i was.
So does this have me down? Oh yeah. But I know long term this will be for the better. I know I have to go throught his process as much as I dont want too.
Just like with quiting drinking. I could easily put on one of my other pairs of shoes and go running like I once did in bad form and be ok just to get my "fix" but why? I'm trying to instill new habits here.
So much like my early days of sobriety where I sat there wishing crying I could just have a few drinks to ease this pain I new that long term that was no solution and that I had to push forward through the process.
I heard a guy talk about desire and want yest. Say you really want a drink. and you finally get that drink is there happiness in that drink? or did you just relieve the agitation and frustration of your desire for a drink?
anyhow I post this to show that yea life can be a struggle and it can stink and hurt and be depressing and sad but it can also be for the best and could just be making you stronger and better.
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As Darryl Worley [sp?] says, "Sounds like life to me."
And you're right -- a lot of life's pains are actually part of a process which is working for our good. Love your analogy. Example: Withdrawals are actually your body healing.
And you're right -- a lot of life's pains are actually part of a process which is working for our good. Love your analogy. Example: Withdrawals are actually your body healing.
Love the long term perspective!
PS. You continue to be a beast with the running. Your mileage is incredible! (I ran a 50k averaging 1/2 of what you are doing weekly). You might surprise yourself at how well you are prepared right now for an Ultra.
PS. You continue to be a beast with the running. Your mileage is incredible! (I ran a 50k averaging 1/2 of what you are doing weekly). You might surprise yourself at how well you are prepared right now for an Ultra.
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yeah its like in early sobriety its not an alcohol deficiency! its just your body getting used to what normal feels like.
in my case the solution isnt to go back to the bad habits here so just gotta keep pushing forward.
I post it to say tho is it a pain? yes absolutly. I run to relieve stress and anxiety etc.. yest i found myself crying over it this morning I woke up looked over at my vibrams stareing at me as if to say "haha gonna teach ya some more today!" and I thought painful SOB's they feel like some horrible painful chain i must wear while running lol.
but its for the best.
in my case the solution isnt to go back to the bad habits here so just gotta keep pushing forward.
I post it to say tho is it a pain? yes absolutly. I run to relieve stress and anxiety etc.. yest i found myself crying over it this morning I woke up looked over at my vibrams stareing at me as if to say "haha gonna teach ya some more today!" and I thought painful SOB's they feel like some horrible painful chain i must wear while running lol.
but its for the best.
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ultra yes thats my goal. I wanna do ultras. I just dont have the time.
and yeah I have to wonder if i just signed up for a race and got proper rest if i'd surprise myself.
I gotta get this form down tho at this moment in time. and yes Ultra's are on my todo list for sure.
Time is my biggest drawback. its always a game trying to figure out where i can fit in the next run around proper eating and such and being a father etc..
and yeah I have to wonder if i just signed up for a race and got proper rest if i'd surprise myself.
I gotta get this form down tho at this moment in time. and yes Ultra's are on my todo list for sure.
Time is my biggest drawback. its always a game trying to figure out where i can fit in the next run around proper eating and such and being a father etc..
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I once was 275lbs smoked over 2 packs a day and drank like a fish day in and day out and lived in a pit of despair.
so yeah this really stinks but geeze oh petes I gotta keep it in perspective it could be incredibly worse.
You are a huge inspiration, Z. I can't run due to disk problems, but I admire your grit. I know a woman who ran Comrades this past year and even she doesn't use Vibram five fingers. I didn't know they were for everyone. Hang on, buddy!
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But now because of my view on it. the pro's tend to tame out the con's sometimes leaving me flat feeling. or when the emotion of despair arises the emotion of being happy about the positive mutes out this despair.
the good and the bad is still very much alive and well within me. they just kinda balance each other out better these days then they once did.
hope this makes sense.
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once I adapt tho this calf pain will subside and I'll be ok.
question -- is it becoming yet another addiction ?????????
I have seen many runners push it when they actually need rest.
My wife for one -- ended up with a knee operation.
I have seen ones running with such a limp that
they should have actually been crawling.
Running or most any kind of exercise can easily
become yet another addiction.
As we know, addictions can hurt or possibly even destroy the body and or mind.
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yeah you really gotta be AWARE. haha. which is interesting. tho I watched out for rocks a lot before however.
The first day i went out and started working my form I ran 7 miles and i tried to make every step perfect and precise for those 7 miles. I came home told my wife this is mentally exhausting hahah. I mean talk about being totally aware in each moment. I couldnt zone out at all!!! and thats one thing I like to do while running is zone out then i come back too and its like oh hey wow i went 5 more miles? lol. The next day I went out ran 9 miles same thing paid attention to each painstaking step. watching where i was going where i stepped made sure i ws precise etc..
again I came back like WOW talk about being AWARE haha.
But thats all part of the expierience. I do hope tho as i get the new habit formed I can go back to zoning out. I like to zone out too lol.
The first day i went out and started working my form I ran 7 miles and i tried to make every step perfect and precise for those 7 miles. I came home told my wife this is mentally exhausting hahah. I mean talk about being totally aware in each moment. I couldnt zone out at all!!! and thats one thing I like to do while running is zone out then i come back too and its like oh hey wow i went 5 more miles? lol. The next day I went out ran 9 miles same thing paid attention to each painstaking step. watching where i was going where i stepped made sure i ws precise etc..
again I came back like WOW talk about being AWARE haha.
But thats all part of the expierience. I do hope tho as i get the new habit formed I can go back to zoning out. I like to zone out too lol.
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Our bodies in a way talk to us and we should pay attention.
I have seen many runners push it when they actually need rest.
My wife for one -- ended up with a knee operation.
I have seen ones running with such a limp that
they should have actually been crawling.
Running or most any kind of exercise can easily
become yet another addiction.
M-Bob
I have seen many runners push it when they actually need rest.
My wife for one -- ended up with a knee operation.
I have seen ones running with such a limp that
they should have actually been crawling.
Running or most any kind of exercise can easily
become yet another addiction.
M-Bob
I know if I was FORCED to tho I could easily be happy with a different activity for exercise. I'd simply have to get over myself.
But I do find more often then not I'm very thankful I can run.
Due to a few operations on both knees I have given running up and now truly enjoy bicycle riding mixed with some light hiking.
65 year old body is a little worn out.
But, we know what they say,
use it or lose it.
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65 year old body is a little worn out.
But, we know what they say,
use it or lose it.
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Thats part of the reason for switching to to minimalist foot where. I was having some hip pain and such. vibrams contrary to popular belief when run in properly are way low impact. I already have incredibly less hip pain and strain in my body.
Life throws many curve balls at us and some of them are desperate hard to deal with, I know in my case in recovery I always wanted things yesterday and it doesn't happen that way as we know.
I work hard at trying to accept things for what they are, still have a long way to go but when life throws something at me I choose to reach out, I used to see that as a sign of weakness but really it's not, it's taking recovery as the most important thing in my life.
There is a lot of reading material on the net around this subject.
All the best
Andrew
I work hard at trying to accept things for what they are, still have a long way to go but when life throws something at me I choose to reach out, I used to see that as a sign of weakness but really it's not, it's taking recovery as the most important thing in my life.
There is a lot of reading material on the net around this subject.
All the best
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Fantastic! Short term pain for long term gain.
I totally understand when you wrote about zoning out and I hope you reach that point with your new style.
With that much running, do you enter any races?
I totally understand when you wrote about zoning out and I hope you reach that point with your new style.
With that much running, do you enter any races?
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