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Old 01-17-2016, 10:25 AM
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Sobersloan.... :(

I'm sure not many of you know Sobersloan.. She was an Army Doctor, medic, she was a mom of a sweet girl for 4 years, she was a really great woman. She saved me... She passed away today. She let her drugs, and alcohol win her over.

I just wanted to say, she is a beautiful soul, and she is in a better place. I miss her dearly.
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Old 01-17-2016, 10:40 AM
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Oh, SoCalDude... I'm so sorry to hear this news.


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Old 01-17-2016, 10:56 AM
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I'm so sorry, SoCalDude. Prayers for you and her friends and family.
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Old 01-17-2016, 11:19 AM
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I am very sorry to hear this. Although I didn't know her, everyone in this community means a lot to me.

My condolences, SoCalDude.
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Old 01-17-2016, 11:35 AM
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SoCalDude,

Do what she could not -- do it for her.

I am so very sorry.
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Old 01-17-2016, 03:52 PM
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I do remember Sobersloan

This is why it's so so important to remember this really is a life and death struggle.

I'm sorry for your loss SoCalDude.

May she rest in peace,
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Thank you for posting this. I remember her well. I feel terrible.
No more earthly cares for our friend.
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Old 01-17-2016, 04:10 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss SoCalDude. I hope she found the peace she could not find on this plane.
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Old 01-17-2016, 04:12 PM
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Thank you all for the kind words. You all are the reason I'm living and breathing today.. Here is the last picture I have of her.

http://postimg.org/image/e28x2aetj/
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Old 01-17-2016, 04:28 PM
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She was very pretty. I am glad you are here and posting today. Lean on us, we are here for you
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Old 01-17-2016, 04:34 PM
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I'm so sorry SoCal May she finally find peace.
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Old 01-17-2016, 04:38 PM
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I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and her family.
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Old 01-17-2016, 04:38 PM
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She was very pretty. I am glad you are here and posting today. Lean on us, we are here for you
Thank you Carlotta... I have been sober for over 1000 days now. Today was tough, but it reminded me why we fight, the fight.
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She was beautiful and vivacious. I'm sorry for your loss, let your sobriety shine, in honor of her.
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I'm so sorry--my thoughts are with you, her daughter, and the rest of her family.
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Old 01-17-2016, 05:03 PM
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Oh, SoCalDude... I'm so sorry to hear this news.


RIP
Opi... it has been a long time. Thank you so much for everything you've done for me and everyone else on here.
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Old 01-17-2016, 05:10 PM
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I'm too new to ever have "met" her here, but I believe that we who battle this affliction share a special bond that transcends space, time, nationality, and distance.

I can see her beautiful spirit in this photo -- a spirit now freed of the earthly burden of addiction.

Peace and comfort to you. I would like to pray for her. Could you PM me her first name, or a nickname I can use in my prayer?
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Old 01-17-2016, 05:24 PM
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Originally Posted by SoberinSyracuse View Post
I'm too new to ever have "met" her here, but I believe that we who battle this affliction share a special bond that transcends space, time, nationality, and distance.

I can see her beautiful spirit in this photo -- a spirit now freed of the earthly burden of addiction.

Peace and comfort to you. I would like to pray for her. Could you PM me her first name, or a nickname I can use in my prayer?
Thank you. I don't need to send a PM, she needs all the prayers we can offer. Her name was Michelle O'Rourke.. She was on here as Michelle Sloan, but she deserves her last name of O'Rourke.. She was 1000+ days sober as well, but was given pain meds during her surgery, and went downhill from there. When I needed to drink, she was there to tell me not to.. She was one in a million.
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I am so sorry for her passing.
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Old 01-17-2016, 06:13 PM
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((SoCalDude)) Thank you so much for your kind words.

When I reached out for help, many members reached out to support me.

I'm walking the road with everyone else here.

SR and its members are some of the most wonderful people, I've had the pleasure to meet.

My heart is heavy today with the news of Michelle's passing. Keeping her little one in my prayers. I'm heartbroken for her.

Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, as well. I know your heart hurts.
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