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Old 12-06-2015, 02:47 PM
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I was talking with a sober friend yesterday and we were talking about people using excuses to get back into cigs, alcohol and/or weed. We were observing that the excuses are usually very lame but is there really such a thing as a good excuse? Also, it seems that the longer you stay sober, the less likely you are to succumb to excuses.

Also Maxx, we discussed weed specifically, since we live in a state where it's legal and we agreed that it really doesn't help with sobriety, it hurts because it stunts your growth. I personally quit drinking before I quit weed but it took being done with both to really fly. Fighting your demons instead of dodging them with drugs and alcohol is actually a liberating experience.

It's up to you to stay on the path.
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Old 12-06-2015, 03:17 PM
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I don't know bout scared, but I just don't know how to. For example, I've played competitive hockey for many years. Every game I would drink fireball whiskey in the parking lot before playing. It gave me intense energy and I played well. Now that I can't drink hard alcohol anymore I don't have the passion to play - much like life. I've experimented with drinking beer before games but it makes me slow and out of breath. So as a result, my equipment is rotting away in the garage. I have no passion to play sober. I just can't. My point is...I've got other hobbies besides hockey but they all have revolved around drinking. When I was sober for the first time in my life I didn't do anything.. Besides worry about myself. I just don't wanna worry anymore. That's why I slip.
I only had the passion for alcohol as it numbed my feelings.
Passion for life is what's missing here, I've rediscovered my passion for life and the things I used to enjoy before my activities were ruled by drinking.

I'm not an athlete or a sporty person but I know plenty and of others that recommend a sober lifestyle, healthy eating, good sleep and the types of things you mentioned in an earlier post that you did when you were sober.

It's never to late to stop drinking... The only time is NOW.

Your last sentence and this whole paragraph sounds like an big excuse and others convey self-pity.
I hope I'm not being harsh, I don't know you but you sound just like I used to.

My best wishes for the strength to do what you need to for your life.

Keep on keeping on and NEVER give in

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Old 12-07-2015, 12:05 AM
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Old 12-07-2015, 06:59 PM
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Old 12-08-2015, 09:53 PM
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Hanging in there,

Haven't drank anything today. I'm feeling real bad though. Above all,
Stomach is giving me warning signs - very Sore/tender and bloated feeling.

Thanks everyone for the comments. Cant do this alone.
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Old 12-09-2015, 04:31 AM
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Old 12-09-2015, 08:51 AM
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Hanging in there,

Haven't drank anything today. I'm feeling real bad though. Above all,
Stomach is giving me warning signs - very Sore/tender and bloated feeling.

Thanks everyone for the comments. Cant do this alone.
We're here for you Max, so you don't have to do this alone.
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Old 12-09-2015, 09:00 AM
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Hanging in there,

Haven't drank anything today. I'm feeling real bad though. Above all,
Stomach is giving me warning signs - very Sore/tender and bloated feeling.

Thanks everyone for the comments. Cant do this alone.
Glad to hear you are staying with it Max. If you continue to have stomach issues see a doc, better to be safe than sorry.
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Old 12-10-2015, 05:01 AM
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I think your idea that you can't get pancreatitis from beer is inaccurate Maxx--
Alcohol is alcohol
Maybe you better check with your doctor if you are hurting.

Please take care of yourself
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Old 12-10-2015, 10:54 AM
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How u doing today maxx?
Keep on, you CAN do it...!
Be great to hear how u are

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Old 12-10-2015, 02:31 PM
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I think your idea that you can't get pancreatitis from beer is inaccurate Maxx--
Alcohol is alcohol
Maybe you better check with your doctor if you are hurting.

Please take care of yourself
Yeah that's just not true Max - I had it, from beer.

Go see your Dr.

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Old 12-10-2015, 06:06 PM
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Didn't sleep last night again cause it hurts still. Going to the hospital if its not good by midnight. I need to rest. It's not my pancreas though,I don't think, this is something different. No appetite, extreme dull bloating feeling around the whole stomach. Getting chills today, constipated. Can't get comfy.





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Old 12-10-2015, 07:24 PM
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Definitely sounds like a trip to the doc is in order Max. Don't try and self diagnose, just go and get some help.
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Old 12-10-2015, 11:11 PM
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Hang in there Max book a Dr apt if it gets any worse go straight to hospital
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Old 12-11-2015, 01:07 AM
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Hoping you are seeking medical assistance today Maxx,
Dr or hospital or even a nurse could really make a difference to the pain & discomfort you are experiencing.
I hope you can get this care for you in these early days... You ARE worth it!
Peace to you and all

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Hey maxx- Feel better soon buddy!
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Old 12-11-2015, 01:28 PM
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I'd go to the DR's man. Keep us updated and I hope you start feeling better.
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Old 12-11-2015, 01:51 PM
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Old 12-13-2015, 02:30 PM
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Are you feeling better Max?
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Old 12-14-2015, 04:42 AM
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