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Old 11-28-2015, 06:50 PM
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I *have* to stop. I don't know where to post so this is likely in the wrong place. Please help, thanks.
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Old 11-28-2015, 07:02 PM
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You can and you will if you really want to. Looking at your join date looks like you've been pursuing this for a while. Are you ready to call it quits? Believe me I know that it's a tough question but that's where you have to begin.
Be well.
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Old 11-28-2015, 07:04 PM
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You're in the right place! Keep posting!

Alcohol detox can be dangerous to your health. Are you in a situation where another can keep an eye on you?
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Old 11-28-2015, 07:05 PM
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You can and you will if you really want to. Looking at your join date looks like you've been pursuing this for a while. Are you ready to call it quits? Believe me I know that it's a tough question but that's where you have to begin.
Be well.
I have and yes I am. I really need to kick myself in the relevant places and do it now.
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Old 11-28-2015, 07:07 PM
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You're in the right place! Keep posting!

Alcohol detox can be dangerous to your health. Are you in a situation where another can keep an eye on you?
Yes, there are others here and thanks for the concern, I haven't started drinking anymore than my last time although I got a little older. I am not too concerned but I have to do it this time. Thanks.
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Old 11-28-2015, 07:20 PM
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Most people here have or are where you are at. Trust me if I could quit, anyone can you just have had to had enough. It's much more peaceful on the other side. You'll get lots of diverse advice here to help you through. The main thing is just doing something about it. The alternative just keeps getting uglier the longer you carry on.
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Old 11-28-2015, 07:22 PM
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Well, if this detox is a problem and you end up relapsing, just know that a doctor can help relieve withdrawal symptoms and cravings.

Coming here and posting is a great step. Here are a couple good threads to join:

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ml#post5664573

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ml#post5665557
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Old 11-28-2015, 07:23 PM
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Thanks, its truly appreciated. I have to hang about this time. I thought I had conquered this the last time (ages ago) but hadn't. I even managed to control it for a bit (in my mind) but we all know I hadn't really and here I am.

At least this time its only me that has started it, no outside pressure, I really WANT to do this!
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Old 11-28-2015, 07:27 PM
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Well, if this detox is a problem and you end up relapsing, just know that a doctor can help relieve withdrawal symptoms and cravings.

Coming here and posting is a great step. Here are a couple good threads to join:

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ml#post5664573

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ml#post5665557
Thank you and I have.
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Old 11-28-2015, 07:37 PM
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welcome back Paul

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Old 11-28-2015, 07:39 PM
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Sounds like you have the right attitude.
I thought I would never be able to live without it. Now I can't figure out why I would ever want to live that way. Just took years of kicking my own a$$ to see the light.
Good luck with your journey.
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Old 11-28-2015, 07:41 PM
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That's great you really want to stop, Paul. I think that's the key as you will be motivated to make the changes to make it happen. Keep posting on SR. I had a couple of slips over the last few months but because I kept posting I didn't go back to my old, 15 year habit of binge drinking 2 or 3 times a week.
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Old 11-28-2015, 07:55 PM
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Welcome back, paul.

You are in exactly the right place.
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Old 11-28-2015, 07:58 PM
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Dee! You are still here! Thank you everyone, I need to stay around this time. I crumbled far too easily on my own last time.

Actually, I think I recognise more names!
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Old 11-28-2015, 08:19 PM
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Hey Paul37, your join date is practically identical and I haven't managed to quit the booze yet. But we're both back here, trying again. Maybe it's time for something different
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Old 11-28-2015, 08:22 PM
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Hi there,

I think this time we can and will do it.

Stop right now with me!
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Old 11-28-2015, 09:16 PM
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Old 11-28-2015, 09:54 PM
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Thank you. Can't sleep tonight but been here before. Bring it on!
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Old 11-29-2015, 03:28 AM
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Nice to meet a fellow Scot hi paul
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Old 11-29-2015, 05:05 AM
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You can do it paul--sounds like you are really ready this time
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