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Old 10-26-2015, 09:27 AM
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Quitting again

Hi everyone,

Although I have been doing good with not drinking , I slipped up and drank during that horrible Eagles game. I was wondering if anyone could recommend a good book that talks about people's experiences and how they quit and what helped them. I am more on the side that alcohol is not a disease but it's more of me being weak
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Old 10-26-2015, 09:30 AM
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Have you looked at Rational Recovery? Google it.
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Old 10-26-2015, 09:53 AM
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One of the best things you might read is this thread.

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...at-we-did.html
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Old 10-26-2015, 10:14 AM
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the AA big book is online for free reading some stories in there.
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Old 10-26-2015, 10:24 AM
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Thanks

I read the rational recovery... Sounds like me. I'm going to read the second thread now
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"The Courage to Change" by Dennis Wholey is a pretty good read. It has first hand accounts of how different people fell into alcohol abuse and how they dealt with it. Included are Pete Townshend, Doc Severinson, Graham Chapman, Sid Caesar, among many others. They all have their own chapters, so you can just pick it up from anywhere in the book and read about a particular person's struggle.

"Dry" by Augusten Burroughs is another pretty good read, but it's more linear. Being a narrative it does get bogged down with all the other things that make up a marketable book: love story, friendships, work, blah blah blah.

Happy reading and best wishes!
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Old 10-27-2015, 05:10 AM
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Wishing you the best in early recovery Flyersfan
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Old 10-27-2015, 12:17 PM
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Thank you everyone

Thanks all for the help. I'm going to pick up that book on Amazon. It's my birthday today too so we will see how I do
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Old 10-27-2015, 12:20 PM
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Sober For Good: New Solutions for Drinking Problems -- Advice from Those Who Have Succeeded by Anne Fletcher

Drinking: A Love Story by Caroline Knapp
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Football was a major problem in my early sobriety especially when preseason started. I eventually had to quit watching it. Maybe next season I'll be better equipped to handle this.

I still keep up on scores and highlights though. It was so difficult not to just sit there and drink. Not to mention just pile junkfood into my mouth.
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Happy Birthday, Flyersfan. Here's to a new beginning for you. I'm sorry you went off the tracks, but you are back! Sometimes we're even more determined after this happens.
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'As Bill Sees It'

Well done, a good book,'As Bill Sees It', available through the AA Service Office has some excellent advice on all manner of things from one of the co-founders of AA, Bill W. Including advice on 'slips', we've all been there..
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Both recommended to me on this site by members that I found very helpful:

AA's 'Living Sober'

Jason Vale- 'Kick The Drink'

They are different ends of the spectrum as far as recovery philosophies go, but I found useful information in both and was able to piece together tools that work for me. I also read a lot of recovery memoirs in general.
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Originally Posted by Dharma33 View Post
Both recommended to me on this site by members that I found very helpful:

AA's 'Living Sober'

Jason Vale- 'Kick The Drink'

They are different ends of the spectrum as far as recovery philosophies go, but I found useful information in both and was able to piece together tools that work for me. I also read a lot of recovery memoirs in general.
Thanks for the Kick The Drink suggestion. Just got a sample off of kindel. I like his comment that alcohol is the only drug in the world that if you quit using people think you must have a problem. What's up with that?
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Old 10-27-2015, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Holds1325 View Post
Football was a major problem in my early sobriety especially when preseason started. I eventually had to quit watching it. Maybe next season I'll be better equipped to handle this. I still keep up on scores and highlights though. It was so difficult not to just sit there and drink. Not to mention just pile junkfood into my mouth.
Same here. Watching my favorite team gets me all anxious and makes me want a drink like nothing else. Instead of watching the game this week, I'll listen to it while taking a very long walk in the woods.
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AA's 'Living Sober'
I own this one and found it very helpful especially early on.
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I'm reading a great book at the moment called 'Blackout: Remembering the Things I Drank to Forget' by Sarah Hepola. I've also heard 'Drinking: A Love Story' is excellent too.
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I like the book, Sober for Good, by Anne Fletcher. She describes many ways to get sober and stay sober. It was a very hopeful book. She includes people from many different sobriety self-help groups and also people who got sober without groups.

I also liked the book for the LifeRing program. (Empowering Your Sober Self: The LifeRing Approach to Addiction Recovery) This book encourages people to strengthen their sober self (such as finding activities that strengthen your desire to be sober).
The LifeRing Bookstore

If you prefer a Buddhist approach, there's Refuge Recovery: A Buddhist Path To Recovering From Addiction.
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Old 10-28-2015, 12:57 AM
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'Charlie & Joe's ; Big Book Study Meeting'

I'd also recommend, listening to or reading,'Charlie & Joe's: Big Book Study Meeting' both are available commercially, to be done in conjunction with the book 'Alcoholics Anonymous'. It played a large part in both my own and many, many others peoples recovery.

Any recordings of Clancy Imislund's are excellent to!
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