Behavior of "Recovered" Alcoholics
Help me here, I'm not sure what you mean by "inner addict". It *sounds* like stereotyping, the addictive personality myth or once-an-addict-always-an-addict. Addiction is chemical dependency, a physical brain disorder that has physical as well as personality symptoms. Those go away once you quit and stay quit, and you're left being just another person, not necessarily a saint.
If you know someone in recovery who is still acting selfishly this data won't change that.
Get dry and you´re still the same person minus the booze. Getting sober means the underling defects of character are removed.
I'm also trying to get a sense of whether most alcoholics become non-selfish and kinder when truly recovered or if the selfishness is more of a common underlying personality characteristic too. I don't think the alcoholism is irrelevant at all considering all of the literature on alcoholism and self esteem and how it tremendously affects someone's personality. I think it's a legitimate question.
It seems from your writing that you have some preconceived notions about the topic. These are limiting and self-defeating don't you think?
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