Thursday morning
Member
Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: Bellingham
Posts: 513
I've known guys like that who are just emotionally aloof with their girlfriends, as if, nothing being substantially and obviously wrong, a fire a flood, they check out, assuming that the ball is in your court and that you will tell them if you want something. They are very trusting that they are loved and valued. As a very emotional insecure person I find the attitude irritating and weird, running against the grain of my universe. But I also notice that women value that obdurate rock-like quality in men even as they are annoyed by it. They also recognize that they would be irritated by a hovering sensatized male type who also expects a similar kind of support paid in return. He is probably unaware, lost in the haze of a coddled up bringing and needs to experience the trauma of loss to snap out of it.
Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)