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Old 03-17-2015, 12:58 PM
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It will get better have you thought of going mtns ?
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Old 03-17-2015, 01:08 PM
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It will get better have you thought of going mtns ?
I thought about it, but after doing research about how they work I don't know if they right for me.
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Old 03-17-2015, 04:54 PM
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what's your recovery plan like outside of SR Joez?
have you made other changes to your life besides just not drinking?

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Old 03-17-2015, 05:37 PM
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I didn't know if I could do the first six months either.

But what I DID know was that I couldn't do 180 more hangovers with sweating, chills, diarrhea, heart palpitations, and feelings of doom.
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Old 03-17-2015, 07:44 PM
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what's your recovery plan like outside of SR Joez?
have you made other changes to your life besides just not drinking?

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Besides of just not drinking?

wow.
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Old 03-18-2015, 04:24 AM
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Besides of just not drinking?
Not-drinking does not treat the initial causes that lead you to start drinking in the first place. If you want to be comfortable in your own skin, try taking action that attracts equanimity into your life.

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Old 03-18-2015, 05:38 AM
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Not-drinking does not treat the initial causes that lead you to start drinking in the first place. If you want to be comfortable in your own skin, try taking action that attracts equanimity into your life.



Yes stopping drinking is a very good start however it’s not usually the end all.

We still are the same people who we were when we started our sober journey carrying the same issues in most cases.

I and most recovered alcoholics needed to work and change certain characteristics we carry and used alcohol to escape from the issues of life.

Fear is/was the top contender along with other feelings that we tried to cover up.

It’s a process that is certainly well worth the effort.

Just think of being comfortable in your skin most of the time.

BE WELL
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Old 03-18-2015, 05:46 AM
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I only have to do what is in front of me. Then I get to sleep. This is much easier than structuring my whole day around my drinking but wasn't at first cuz I had more practice at that. Doing life sober repetitively is progressive and gets funner, easier and more rewarding sooner than you think. Congrats on 40+ days!
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Old 03-18-2015, 06:23 AM
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How are you today Joez i went to group therapy i spoke to an addiction outreach team i started reading recovery based books i volenteered ?

have you tried sr's secular section or avrt ? check it out

Having a journal really helps gratitude lists help

knowing what to do in times of urge & cravings

having a exit plan for any occasion

you can pm anytime bud
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