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Old 03-05-2015, 09:31 PM
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Old 03-07-2015, 08:12 PM
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I'm starting to feel guilty for leaving

No, not really. I'm better off

But, I do remember feeling that way. I was drunk with my husband, then by myself when I decided to get sober.

I lost my husband (emotionally) but gained sobriety. Would NEVER have taken a different path.

No more "what if's"
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Old 03-07-2015, 08:38 PM
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When I was drinking I don't think I loved it more than my wife. My wife was my fist love and still is. It wasn't that I loved drinking. In later drinking days I hated it yet wasn't willing, or thought I couldn't to give it up. My twisted mind and later my body was convinced I needed it as much as air. Then I was left with the ultimatum.

Hope he finds the light like you did.
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Old 03-07-2015, 08:51 PM
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I know exactly how you feel. My AH makes love to his bottle every night...
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Old 03-07-2015, 09:11 PM
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You are a very strong person to work on sobriety while living with an active alkie. Perhaps he will see the positive impact sobriety has on you and want some of it for himself. Kudos to you.

Best wishes.
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Old 03-08-2015, 09:04 AM
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You are a very strong person to work on sobriety while living with an active alkie. Perhaps he will see the positive impact sobriety has on you and want some of it for himself. Kudos to you.

Best wishes.
Just as long as you keep in mind:

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make his drink it
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